Jewish World Review July 11, 2003 / 11 Tamuz, 5763
Summer; the living is easy
There are 94 days of summer. That includes three full moons, a
couple of meteor showers, at least two worrisome dry spells, 24-plus bouts
of suffocating humidity, four dozen spectacular sunsets and a handful of
"this has to be one of the most beautiful days of the year."
Some great storms are going to roll through this summer, the kind
of storms that remind you you're not really as in control of life as you
think you are. Black heavy clouds will bully in the from west, darken the
sky and trip the street lights at 3 in the afternoon. Thunder will rattle
the windows and shake pictures on the walls, and torrents of rain will plug
up the storm sewers at the four-way stops.
A fast moving storm may pass through in a matter of minutes. A
slower moving cell may linger as long as an hour. It's possible to sleep
through a boomer and miss it entirely. And it's possible to miss one
because you are glued to the Weather Channel, broadcasting from Atlanta,
telling you what's happening in your own backyard.
Robins will warble this summer as morning sunlight streams through
the trees. A robin's trill lasts about three to four seconds. Come
evening, mourning doves will coo to announce the arrival of twilight. A
dove may stick around and coo for three or four minutes, 10 if you're lucky.
Bluebirds will glide across open woodlands and sparrows will
build nests and hatch eggs in your hanging ferns and flowering baskets.
They're fast though, very fast. If you are inside enjoying the comfort of
air conditioning, you could miss them entirely.
There's going to be another fracas in the garden this summer.
Arguing, bickering, nitpicking, all the usual tit for tat. Yarrow will try
to upstage the begonias.
Daisies will stretch and bend to taunt the snapdragons and
dahlias will puff their chests in an attempt to intimidate the zinnias.
Meanwhile, from the safety of window boxes, geraniums will boast that they
have always been the favorite.
Just when you think things have settled down, blue and pink phlox
will duke it out for center stage with the coneflowers and black-eyed
Susans. It's hard to ignore the color and commotion in the garden, unless
of course, you're buzzing down the interstate at 70 mph listening to
all-news radio all the time.
Even the tasty side of summer doesn't last for long. A single
stick Popsicle can be gone in as little as three minutes, two if the
temperature is over 90.
Ice cream lasts longer, but not much. Especially if it's in a bowl
smothered with hot fudge and nuts.
I used to think there was a correlation between summer and age.
The older you got, the shorter the summers got. Not so. Summers may be
shortest of all for children.
The school year has ebbed into June and now hogs the better part
of August. Pushy, that's all it is, just pushy. Summer months mean special
classes for the accelerated kids, catch-up classes for those lagging
behind, required summer reading for high school students, and conditioning
camps for anyone hoping to play football, soccer or tiddlywinks.
There was a time summer dragged on for so long that kids couldn't
wait for school to start. Now it seems as though school never really ends.
Summer simply doesn't last as long as it used to. It passes
quickly, very, very quickly.
Catch it if you can.
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© 2001, Lori Borgman
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