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Jewish World Review Sept. 21, 2000 / 20 Elul, 5760

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She took off with the car


http://www.jewishworldreview.com -- DEAR BRUCE: My girlfriend and I lived together for almost four years. Last month she decided to end our relationship, which was OK by me. When she left she took all of her things out of the apartment and took off with one of the cars, both of which are in my name and not completely paid for. I am faced with the dilemma of not making the payments and having a bad credit reputation and maybe worse or making the payments on a car that, I not only don't have the use of, I don't even know where it is. What do you suggest? -- A.T., via e-mail

DEAR A.T.: This is another one of those hazards of folks who live together and start to combine their financial activities. What you didn't say in your letter was who was making the payments on the car before the split. It may very well be that although it was in your name, she considered it her car. The problem here is that if it's financed in your name, your credit will suffer and I'd be hard-pressed to see how the finance company could repossess if no one knows where this woman is. I'd do my best to get hold of her and try to work things out amicably. Right now, as I see it, you are very squarely and firmly on the hook.

DEAR BRUCE: My wife and I together earn almost $100,000 a year. It seems like a lot of money, and yet by the time we pay the bills, the tuition for the kids, the mortgage, etc., we are living literally from paycheck to paycheck. There has got to be a better way. -- C.P., via e-mail

DEAR C.P.: Of course there is a better way, and there are people out there reading this saying "My gosh, if I had their problem, I'd be rich." The one term here that you will have to come to grips with is "budget," which means allocating certain funds for certain activities. Before you can do this intelligently, you will have to figure out where the money is going. I'm suggesting that you and your wife keep a very accurate diary on every single dime that you spend for the next 30 days. Then you can sit down and put the must-pay items on the list such as mortgage, insurance, etc. The areas of some discretion include items such as food and leisure activities.

Decide exactly where the money is going and how much will go for each endeavor. Then, every time those checks come in, at least 10 percent should be going into some type of investment that you do not disturb. You're OK on the earnings side, but you are very weak on the discipline side. It's about time to straighten that out.

DEAR BRUCE: We have about $8,000 in miscellaneous debt, with most being credit cards. Although we have managed to make the minimum payments, we are not getting anywhere because of the high interest. My bank will make me a home equity loan at less than half the interest rate. I'm prepared to borrow this money, but my wife says that you have said that this is not a good idea. Saving over half of the interest seems to me like a no-brainer. Your turn. -- R.T., via e-mail

DEAR R.T.: It's a no-brainer if you have the discipline to pay it off in a 24-month period, which would mean making many advanced payments. The problem with the scenario that you have come up with is that you are borrowing the money for a minimum of 60 months and perhaps as long as 120. It seems crazy to me to pay off hamburgers and clothing purchases over a 10-year period. When you add the interest up over that period of time, it will far exceed what you are paying now. The problem is that most folks do not have the discipline to borrow money on a five- or 10-year program and then pay it off in two. If you are one of the few that has the discipline, then I have no problem. Otherwise I would strongly urge you to find another way to meet these obligations.



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