Jewish World Review Dec. 2, 1999 /23 Kislev, 5760
I MUST CONFESS that I am not altogether polite to telemarketers who make
the mistake of phoning my house at the dinner hour. Sure, there are evenings
when my children are dining like little gentlemen. But the more usual
situation is a bit more chaotic.
"Jonathan, did you ask to be excused? No? Well, sit down then! David, just
try them. Everyone likes sweet potatoes. Ben, we don't make those noises at
the dinner table. Jonathan, I thought I told you sit down? Ben, watch your
elbow, you are about to knock your cup over! David, I'll reminisce about
'Toy Story 2' in a minute."
Ring, ring. "Hi, I'm calling from the Worthy Cause." I usually explain as
civilly as possible that the call has come at an awkward moment. Some will
apologize and hang up. Others will promise to call back later. But the very
worst are those who refuse to take no for an answer. They are clearly
trained to ignore the words "sorry" and "no" and "I prefer to make my
charitable contributions another way," and barrel ahead with their prepared
I do have a list of favorite charities and a clear conscience. But turning
down all those entreaties at the dinner hour leaves a bad taste just the
(For a while, I tried saying yes, though I was skeptical that the
money would be put to good use, just to get off the phone more quickly. But,
of course, it only led to more calls.)
In any case, for those who take their giving seriously, Philanthropy
magazine has performed a public service. It has offered a list of 16 small
charities that are making an enormous difference in the lives of needy
Americans. Because these charities are small and non-bureaucratic, you can
be reasonably certain that your money will go to the intended beneficiaries
and not to some conglomerate.
RAFT, the Resource Area for Teachers, hit upon the idea of recycling
materials businesses no longer need and donating them to teachers in the San
Francisco Bay Area. Computers that are no longer cutting edge -- that is,
more than a year old -- have been donated by Silicon Valley firms and have
found good homes in schools. Other businesses have donated office supplies,
furniture, packing materials, bulletin boards, even T-shirts and watches.
Founded by a former elementary school teacher, RAFT provides the raw
materials that spur creativity on the part of teachers. Leftover fabrics can
make great costumes for school plays, plastic dye casts can be used in
science experiments, and all sorts of contributions can be turned into art
In Los Angeles, teacher Rafe Esquith knew that the kids in his classes
needed something more than the schools were giving them. And so he began an
after-school program in Shakespeare -- helping his 5th- and 6th-graders to
read eight of the Bard's plays each year. He also trains the kids at Hobart
School -- 80 percent of whom come from alcoholic and otherwise unhealthy
families -- to learn the virtue of hard work. A sign over the blackboard
reads, "There are no shortcuts." Though he rises every day at 4:30 to walk
to work (he does not own a car), Esquith also teaches a Saturday morning
class that combines literature with SAT preparation. The academic
attainments of his students have been stupendous, with many going on to Ivy
League and similarly selective colleges.
The Cornerstone School of Alabama is a spin-off of the Detroit trailblazer.
Like the original, the Alabama branch of the school takes children from
terrible neighborhoods and family situations and gently but firmly places
them on the road to success. With small classes, a back-to-basics
curriculum, intensive tutoring and individualized education plans,
Cornerstone brings even students who had been several grades behind up to
grade level. The children who start their education at Cornerstone at age 3
score in the 90th percentile nationwide. But academic performance is only
half the story. Cornerstone also sees its mission in moral terms, and each
month attempts to instill a different virtue -- honesty, respect,
compassion, and so on.
There are many more. To read about more about Philanthropy's picks, see
their website at www.philanthropyroundtable.org, or phone them at
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