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Jewish World Review Dec. 27, 1999/ 18 Teves, 5760

Yes, Virginialeh, there
are poor Jews


By Ami Eden


IT’S TUESDAY NIGHT at the Philadelphia Marriott West in Conshohocken and most of the conference rooms are filled with corporate salesmen exhorting their audiences to invest in a hot stock, prescribe the latest pharmaceuticals or implement an efficient downsizing campaign.

These white-collar businessmen from all over are putting in long hours. Still, they have it easy compared to Dr. Harold Goldman, president of the Jewish Family and Children’s Service (JFCS) of Greater Philadelphia. Tonight, his job is to convince a roomful of well-to-do Jews that some in their community are suffering—not from assimilation or intermarriage—but from poverty.

Talk about a hard sell.

American Jews are used to thinking about their needy co-religionists in Russia or underdeveloped areas of Israel. But in their own backyard? Less than a half-hour away? Poverty is hard to fathom from inside a half-million-dollar home on the Main Line.

Yet, as head of JFCS, Goldman’s mission is to draw the collective portrait of the 6,800 Jewish households living below the poverty line in Greater Philadelphia. And that’s what he’s doing tonight, as he talks to a group of 20 young leaders of the Jewish Federation of Greater Philadelphia.

Tall and slim, with a trimmed beard, army-short haircut and an authentic Southern twang, Goldman brings the message of a biblical prophet—in the guise of a social worker. A stranger might mistake his subdued voice as a symptom of the cold that clearly has the best of him, but later his colleagues will insist that delivering a powerful message in a soft-spoken way is simply his style, a combination of passion and a deep respect for most of the people who enter into his life.

“The gap between the haves and the have-nots is becoming a very serious problem for the community,” Goldman tells his audience, uncertain whether his message is resonating with this group of up-and-coming professionals. “The poor live mainly in the city. The affluent live mainly in the suburbs. The result is that the rich have less empathy for and weaker bonds to those who are less fortunate.”

Econophone These few sentences strike at the heart of what keeps Goldman up nights and makes his job so difficult.

The statistics are significant and startling: According to the “Jewish Population Study of Greater Philadelphia 1996-1997,” half of the area’s 99,300 Jewish households earn less than $50,000, with a quarter of all families pulling in less than $25,000. However, beneath these figures and beyond the question of how to raise more money for the Jewish underclass, Goldman sees a deeper problem—an unraveling community in which the better off are not only indifferent, but increasingly oblivious to the less fortunate around them.

Several days have passed since his speech at the Marriott, and Goldman is still anxious to discuss the relationship between Jewish poverty and the declining state of community in Jewish Philadelphia. But first, he talks about the various pictures hanging in his office. Some are family portraits sketched by his sister, Marilyn Weinman. Just to the left of the door are three pictures of Orthodox yeshiva students learning Torah. Goldman found this trio of 19th-century Viennese prints stuffed in a closet at work and took a liking to them.

“They mean something to me,” he says, explaining that, as someone born in 1942, the traditional images remind him of a Jewish past to which he still feels connected. “My family came to the United States from Russia in the first quarter of the 20th century. As a young kid in the South, I experienced anti-Semitism. Certainly the Holocaust meant a great deal to me, and I have vivid memories of being very proud of the creation of the State of Israel.”

Goldman was born and raised in Memphis, Tenn., but while growing up, his life was still a loud echo of the European Jewry that his parents left behind. “I lived in an Orthodox home,” he says. “I studied in a cheder three days a week and belonged to a Jewish youth group. Almost all my friends were Jewish.” It was an American shtetl of sorts, a top-to-bottom Jewish community, where belonging meant more than signing a few checks. Rich or poor, everyone knew each other, lived together and saw each other’s problems up close. However, Goldman adds, this type of proximity is gone and, along with it, most of the ties that bind.

Trakdata “What makes a community really function is that me and you—all of us—have certain common ground that we stand on,” says Goldman. “We share certain experiences, traditions and a set of core values. We have the opportunity to go to Jewish cultural events; our kids go to Jewish camps. We talk with a shared language. These things are what make up the texture of the community and make a community successful.”

But in our region, because of suburban sprawl and the breaking down of a “Jewish cosmology” built on Israel, remembering the Holocaust and a fear of anti-Semitism, the community is fragmenting. As a result, low-income families are falling through the cracks.

“If you have people who cannot participate in those kinds of things, then they really are not part of the dialogue. They don’t share the same status.

And it’s not just economic status,” he says. “It’s really the status of being able to participate in a shared experience. If the community keeps shifting like this, I think those people who are left out and marginalized are going to drift away.”

When it comes to giving a voice to those who are absent from the communal table, Goldman and JFCS have recently adopted a more activist approach. “We have to do a better job getting out the story of the Jewish poor,” he explains.

The first step came last year, when the agency’s Committee for the Jewish Poor produced a report that attempted to assess low-income needs and the community’s “responsiveness,” as well as “to develop a plan for advocacy and action.”

“It is such a radical step just to have a committee for the Jewish poor,” says Betsy R. Sheerr, the JFCS board member who chaired the study. “It’s typical of Harold, who has a very strong sense of vision and responsibility for the entire Jewish community. He wanted to make sure that we studied the implications of [Jewish poverty] and offered a set of recommendations to the community. The study reveals what we think is the tip of the iceberg, but it is still enough to get people’s attention.”

Among those taking notice is the Jewish Federation of Greater Philadelphia, which provided about 30 percent of JFCS’s $9.4-million budget in 1997-98. Spurred by the JFCS report, which found that the community lacked an adequate system for tracking the Jewish poor and had managed to assist less than 20 percent of those below the poverty line, Federation established a high-level task force charged with determining the short- and long-term needs of the less fortunate.

Goldman is also encouraging his board members to actively lobby for government funding and other legislation that impacts on low-income families and other JFCS constituents. “My pitch to our board is that we have to be advocating—especially those of us in this world who are privileged and better off,” says Goldman. “We have to be speaking with our friends and neighbors about those who aren’t succeeding. We have to tell them that the Jewish world is a complex one, that there are a lot of people who aren’t making it, who are being left out of the good life because they may be physically handicapped, new immigrants or single parents.”

Goldman realizes that the task of restoring communal bonds across class lines will not be easy, especially at a time when his message is so at odds with the dominant themes of American culture. “Our society stresses individualism and materialism. It’s still very ‘me-oriented,’” he says. “We’re no different in the Jewish community. How can you be any different? How can you not be affected by the broader culture? I buy stuff all the time that I neither want nor need—that’s what the culture is all about.”

Making matters worse, of course, are the new geographic realities of Jewish life and the collapse of the community’s unifying ideology. To stress the point, Goldman takes the conversation back to the prints of the yeshiva students. “These pictures don’t have the same power for younger people,” says Goldman, citing his own nieces and nephews as an example. “Anti-Semitism wasn’t a big deal for them growing up. They were much more assimilated and acculturated.” But, he adds, the answer is not to search for a world that has passed. “I really think that one of the toughest challenges for those of us in leadership positions is to free ourselves of our past and be able to look at the world through the eyes of a twenty- or thirtysomething and see what he or she is going to want and need.”


Ami Eden is news editor of the Jewish Exponent in Philadelphia. Send your comments to him by clicking here.

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©1999. This article first appeared in Inside magazine.