In this issue

Jonathan Tobin: Defending the Right to a Jewish State

Heather Hale: Compliment your kids without giving them big heads

Megan Shauri: 10 ways you are ruining your own happiness

Carolyn Bigda: 8 Best Dividend Stocks for 2015

Kiplinger's Personal Finance editors: 7 Things You Didn't Know About Paying Off Student Loans

Samantha Olson: The Crucial Mistake 55% Of Parents Are Making At Their Baby's Bedtime

Densie Well, Ph.D., R.D. Open your eyes to yellow vegetables

The Kosher Gourmet by Megan Gordon With its colorful cache of purples and oranges and reds, COLLARD GREEN SLAW is a marvelous mood booster --- not to mention just downright delish
April 18, 2014

Rabbi Yonason Goldson: Clarifying one of the greatest philosophical conundrums in theology

Caroline B. Glick: The disappearance of US will

Megan Wallgren: 10 things I've learned from my teenagers

Lizette Borreli: Green Tea Boosts Brain Power, May Help Treat Dementia

John Ericson: Trying hard to be 'positive' but never succeeding? Blame Your Brain

The Kosher Gourmet by Julie Rothman Almondy, flourless torta del re (Italian king's cake), has royal roots, is simple to make, . . . but devour it because it's simply delicious

April 14, 2014

Rabbi Dr Naftali Brawer: Passover frees us from the tyranny of time

Greg Crosby: Passing Over Religion

Eric Schulzke: First degree: How America really recovered from a murder epidemic

Georgia Lee: When love is not enough: Teaching your kids about the realities of adult relationships

Cameron Huddleston: Freebies for Your Lawn and Garden

Gordon Pape: How you can tell if your financial adviser is setting you up for potential ruin

Dana Dovey: Up to 500,000 people die each year from hepatitis C-related liver disease. New Treatment Has Over 90% Success Rate

Justin Caba: Eating Watermelon Can Help Control High Blood Pressure

The Kosher Gourmet by Joshua E. London and Lou Marmon Don't dare pass over these Pesach picks for Manischewitz!

April 11, 2014

Rabbi Hillel Goldberg: Silence is much more than golden

Caroline B. Glick: Forgetting freedom at Passover

Susan Swann: How to value a child for who he is, not just what he does

Cameron Huddleston: 7 Financial Tasks You Should Tackle Right Now

Sandra Block and Lisa Gerstner: How to Profit From Your Passion

Susan Scutti: A Simple Blood Test Might Soon Diagnose Cancer

Chris Weller: Have A Slow Metabolism? Let Science Speed It Up For You

The Kosher Gourmet by Diane Rossen Worthington Whitefish Terrine: A French take on gefilte fish

April 9, 2014

Jonathan Tobin: Why Did Kerry Lie About Israeli Blame?

Samuel G. Freedman: A resolution 70 years later for a father's unsettling legacy of ashes from Dachau

Jessica Ivins: A resolution 70 years later for a father's unsettling legacy of ashes from Dachau

Kim Giles: Asking for help is not weakness

Kathy Kristof and Barbara Hoch Marcus: 7 Great Growth Israeli Stocks

Matthew Mientka: How Beans, Peas, And Chickpeas Cleanse Bad Cholesterol and Lowers Risk of Heart Disease

Sabrina Bachai: 5 At-Home Treatments For Headaches

The Kosher Gourmet by Daniel Neman Have yourself a matzo ball: The secrets bubby never told you and recipes she could have never imagined

April 8, 2014

Lori Nawyn: At Your Wit's End and Back: Finding Peace

Susan B. Garland and Rachel L. Sheedy: Strategies Married Couples Can Use to Boost Benefits

David Muhlbaum: Smart Tax Deductions Non-Itemizers Can Claim

Jill Weisenberger, M.S., R.D.N., C.D.E : Before You Lose Your Mental Edge

Dana Dovey: Coffee Drinkers Rejoice! Your Cup Of Joe Can Prevent Death From Liver Disease

Chris Weller: Electric 'Thinking Cap' Puts Your Brain Power Into High Gear

The Kosher Gourmet by Marlene Parrish A gift of hazelnuts keeps giving --- for a variety of nutty recipes: Entree, side, soup, dessert

April 4, 2014

Rabbi David Gutterman: The Word for Nothing Means Everything

Charles Krauthammer: Kerry's folly, Chapter 3

Amy Peterson: A life of love: How to build lasting relationships with your children

John Ericson: Older Women: Save Your Heart, Prevent Stroke Don't Drink Diet

John Ericson: Why 50 million Americans will still have spring allergies after taking meds

Cameron Huddleston: Best and Worst Buys of April 2014

Stacy Rapacon: Great Mutual Funds for Young Investors

Sarah Boesveld: Teacher keeps promise to mail thousands of former students letters written by their past selves

The Kosher Gourmet by Sharon Thompson Anyone can make a salad, you say. But can they make a great salad? (SECRETS, TESTED TECHNIQUES + 4 RECIPES, INCLUDING DRESSINGS)

April 2, 2014

Paul Greenberg: Death and joy in the spring

Dan Barry: Should South Carolina Jews be forced to maintain this chimney built by Germans serving the Nazis?

Mayra Bitsko: Save me! An alien took over my child's personality

Frank Clayton: Get happy: 20 scientifically proven happiness activities

Susan Scutti: It's Genetic! Obesity and the 'Carb Breakdown' Gene

Lecia Bushak: Why Hand Sanitizer May Actually Harm Your Health

Stacy Rapacon: Great Funds You Can Own for $500 or Less

Cameron Huddleston: 7 Ways to Save on Home Decor

The Kosher Gourmet by Steve Petusevsky Exploring ingredients as edible-stuffed containers (TWO RECIPES + TIPS & TECHINQUES)

Jewish World Review August 6, 2010 / 26 Menachem-Av, 5770

A bold decision that doesn't mean much

By Wesley Pruden

http://www.JewishWorldReview.com | SAN FRANCISCO | Bear Bryant is remembered for one of the most quoted aphorisms in sport: "A tie is like kissing your sister." You could apply Bear's scorn for a tie to the decision of a federal judge in San Francisco declaring California's definition of marriage - as something more than "marriage" - to be unconstitutional.

The decision doesn't settle anything. The trial in U.S. District Court was a setup for the real thing. The decision was rendered by a not-so-discreet gay caballero in San Francisco, where a man and woman holding hands in public risk outraging public morals, such as public morals and preferences may be in these precincts.

Next up is an appeal to the U.S. Ninth Circuit Court of Appeals, also based in San Francisco, where the most liberal of all the appeals courts is expected to rubber-stamp the decision. That still won't settle anything. Then it's on to the U.S. Supreme Court, where justices are usually loath to reach for the rubber stamp.

Judge Vaughn R. Walker's determination that Proposition 8, the California ballot referendum declaring marriage to be a contract between a man and a woman, reflects little more than boilerplate language of homosexual activists. Proposition 8 "fails to advance any rational basis in singling out gay men and lesbians for denial of a marriage license. Indeed, the evidence shows Proposition 8 does nothing more than enshrine in the California Constitution the notion that opposite-sex couples are superior to same-sex couples."

Long before the challenge to Prop 8 was filed, Judge Walker had established a reputation for protecting lavender dreams and wishes. In 1999, he dismissed an appeal for redress for a boy whose religious belief that homosexuality is immoral was mocked by his teacher in a classroom lecture. Five years later, he upheld the city of Oakland's punishment of two city employees for distributing handbills promoting "natural family, marriage and family values." Mr. Walker declared that the city had "significant interests in restricting discriminatory speech about homosexuals." The First Amendment, which guarantees freedom of speech, not just nice speech, must not apply in Oakland.

Though the Walker ruling was expected and set off celebration among gays and lesbians seeking pride of place atop a wedding cake, some homosexual advocates had concluded that their real goal - social acceptance by heterosexuals - won't be imposed by courts or legislation, only, if at all, by means of persuasion.

David Fleischer, who leads a mentoring program by the Los Angeles Gay and Lesbian Center, recently supervised an analysis of poll data from the Prop 8 referendum, seeking clues to what actually went wrong and how to avoid a similar result in future. "A set of assumptions [about the results] gained wide acceptance," he says. "Some were correct. Most, however, are just plain wrong."

Foremost among the assumptions was that the winning 52 percent to 48 percent margin was the result of a churchgoing coalition of black, Mormon and Republican bigots, that emotional television advertising in the last days of the campaign brainwashed hundreds of thousands of voters. Mr. Fleischer, writing in the Los Angeles Times the day before Judge Walker announced his ruling, says his team discovered evidence that few voters changed their minds in the last days of the campaign. "The shift, it turns out," he writes, "was greatest among parents with children under 18 living at home - many of them white Democrats."

Another misconception "was that those who voted for Proposition 8 were motivated by hate." He thinks that misinformation carried the day for Proposition 8, and a new attempt soon to establish gay marriage by popular referendum, which some of his gay colleagues think will be easy this time, will fail. His analysis "makes absolutely clear that supporters of same-sex marriage have a lot of work to do before we return to the ballot."

Now the issue goes to the U.S. Supreme Court, where appeals to emotion, which so moved Judge Walker, are usually squeezed from the arguments of the lawyers. If the court wants to make a narrow decision (as it often does), it might hold that the definition of marriage is properly the function of the 50 states. This was the argument of liberals only yesterday against establishing a federal definition of marriage. It is no doubt true, as Judge Walker writes, that most Americans do believe that marriage, as taught over the millennia by every religious faith, is "superior" to same-sex "marriage." In the end, gays and lesbians might have to settle for something less than they want, such as civil unions, and establish traditions of their own. There's only room for two atop the wedding cake.

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