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Jonathan Tobin: Defending the Right to a Jewish State

Heather Hale: Compliment your kids without giving them big heads

Megan Shauri: 10 ways you are ruining your own happiness

Carolyn Bigda: 8 Best Dividend Stocks for 2015

Kiplinger's Personal Finance editors: 7 Things You Didn't Know About Paying Off Student Loans

Samantha Olson: The Crucial Mistake 55% Of Parents Are Making At Their Baby's Bedtime

Densie Well, Ph.D., R.D. Open your eyes to yellow vegetables

The Kosher Gourmet by Megan Gordon With its colorful cache of purples and oranges and reds, COLLARD GREEN SLAW is a marvelous mood booster --- not to mention just downright delish
April 18, 2014

Rabbi Yonason Goldson: Clarifying one of the greatest philosophical conundrums in theology

Caroline B. Glick: The disappearance of US will

Megan Wallgren: 10 things I've learned from my teenagers

Lizette Borreli: Green Tea Boosts Brain Power, May Help Treat Dementia

John Ericson: Trying hard to be 'positive' but never succeeding? Blame Your Brain

The Kosher Gourmet by Julie Rothman Almondy, flourless torta del re (Italian king's cake), has royal roots, is simple to make, . . . but devour it because it's simply delicious

April 14, 2014

Rabbi Dr Naftali Brawer: Passover frees us from the tyranny of time

Greg Crosby: Passing Over Religion

Eric Schulzke: First degree: How America really recovered from a murder epidemic

Georgia Lee: When love is not enough: Teaching your kids about the realities of adult relationships

Cameron Huddleston: Freebies for Your Lawn and Garden

Gordon Pape: How you can tell if your financial adviser is setting you up for potential ruin

Dana Dovey: Up to 500,000 people die each year from hepatitis C-related liver disease. New Treatment Has Over 90% Success Rate

Justin Caba: Eating Watermelon Can Help Control High Blood Pressure

The Kosher Gourmet by Joshua E. London and Lou Marmon Don't dare pass over these Pesach picks for Manischewitz!

April 11, 2014

Rabbi Hillel Goldberg: Silence is much more than golden

Caroline B. Glick: Forgetting freedom at Passover

Susan Swann: How to value a child for who he is, not just what he does

Cameron Huddleston: 7 Financial Tasks You Should Tackle Right Now

Sandra Block and Lisa Gerstner: How to Profit From Your Passion

Susan Scutti: A Simple Blood Test Might Soon Diagnose Cancer

Chris Weller: Have A Slow Metabolism? Let Science Speed It Up For You

The Kosher Gourmet by Diane Rossen Worthington Whitefish Terrine: A French take on gefilte fish

April 9, 2014

Jonathan Tobin: Why Did Kerry Lie About Israeli Blame?

Samuel G. Freedman: A resolution 70 years later for a father's unsettling legacy of ashes from Dachau

Jessica Ivins: A resolution 70 years later for a father's unsettling legacy of ashes from Dachau

Kim Giles: Asking for help is not weakness

Kathy Kristof and Barbara Hoch Marcus: 7 Great Growth Israeli Stocks

Matthew Mientka: How Beans, Peas, And Chickpeas Cleanse Bad Cholesterol and Lowers Risk of Heart Disease

Sabrina Bachai: 5 At-Home Treatments For Headaches

The Kosher Gourmet by Daniel Neman Have yourself a matzo ball: The secrets bubby never told you and recipes she could have never imagined

April 8, 2014

Lori Nawyn: At Your Wit's End and Back: Finding Peace

Susan B. Garland and Rachel L. Sheedy: Strategies Married Couples Can Use to Boost Benefits

David Muhlbaum: Smart Tax Deductions Non-Itemizers Can Claim

Jill Weisenberger, M.S., R.D.N., C.D.E : Before You Lose Your Mental Edge

Dana Dovey: Coffee Drinkers Rejoice! Your Cup Of Joe Can Prevent Death From Liver Disease

Chris Weller: Electric 'Thinking Cap' Puts Your Brain Power Into High Gear

The Kosher Gourmet by Marlene Parrish A gift of hazelnuts keeps giving --- for a variety of nutty recipes: Entree, side, soup, dessert

April 4, 2014

Rabbi David Gutterman: The Word for Nothing Means Everything

Charles Krauthammer: Kerry's folly, Chapter 3

Amy Peterson: A life of love: How to build lasting relationships with your children

John Ericson: Older Women: Save Your Heart, Prevent Stroke Don't Drink Diet

John Ericson: Why 50 million Americans will still have spring allergies after taking meds

Cameron Huddleston: Best and Worst Buys of April 2014

Stacy Rapacon: Great Mutual Funds for Young Investors

Sarah Boesveld: Teacher keeps promise to mail thousands of former students letters written by their past selves

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April 2, 2014

Paul Greenberg: Death and joy in the spring

Dan Barry: Should South Carolina Jews be forced to maintain this chimney built by Germans serving the Nazis?

Mayra Bitsko: Save me! An alien took over my child's personality

Frank Clayton: Get happy: 20 scientifically proven happiness activities

Susan Scutti: It's Genetic! Obesity and the 'Carb Breakdown' Gene

Lecia Bushak: Why Hand Sanitizer May Actually Harm Your Health

Stacy Rapacon: Great Funds You Can Own for $500 or Less

Cameron Huddleston: 7 Ways to Save on Home Decor

The Kosher Gourmet by Steve Petusevsky Exploring ingredients as edible-stuffed containers (TWO RECIPES + TIPS & TECHINQUES)

Jewish World Review August 26, 2011 26 Menachem-Av, 5771

Back to School: Helping Boys Man-up in Reading

By Suzanne Fields

http://www.JewishWorldReview.com | Once upon a time, women complained that everything in the culture favored men, that it began when men and women were boys and girls. Boys got the advantage in kindergarten and kept it through high school and into their college years. Boys were more active than girls, and teachers called on them for recitation more often than girls.

That was in the long ago. Teachers usually call on girls first now because they're more likely to have the answer. Girls typically score higher on reading tests.

The Center on Education Policy assessed the differences in reading scores between girls and boys and found the poor performance of boys "the most pressing gender-gap issue facing our schools." Nor is it an underclass or minority disparity. The lower scores of boys are found in every ethnic and socio-economic groups, including the privileged white children of college-educated parents.

The researchers were not shocked, but surprised that sex trumped sociology. Books aimed at the boy market have encouraged boys to avoid good storytelling. But there are enough copies of "Captain Underpants," "Butt Books" and volumes like "SweetFarts" to supply a potty-mouth boy the coursework for a Ph.D. in bathroom humor, as a boy moves from days of innocent flatulence through the unrestrained excess of puberty.

Authors and their publishers had the idea that to get boys to read they had to meet them where they live, in a scatological world of their own making. That approach created other problems.

"If you keep meeting a boy where he is, he doesn't go very far," says Thomas Spence, president of Spence Publishing Co., noted for its quality books with a traditional bent, in The Wall Street Journal. "One obvious problem with the SweetFarts philosophy of education is that it is more suited to producing a generation of barbarians and morons than to raising the sort of men who make good husbands, fathers and professionals."

The author Kay Hymowitz puts it succinctly in "Man-up," a book about the man who won't grow up. (Buy it at a 37% discount by clicking here. Kindle edition, $11.69 ) "Crudity," she says, "is at the heart of the child-man persona."

The culture once educated children to learn about what's right and wrong, what's in good taste, what's vulgar and coarse, and no apologies. Children were introduced to a world where adults expected them to respect cultural literacy. They learned to appreciate the aesthetic power and entertainment of a good story well told.

Both boys and girls learned to enjoy the "The Rime of the Ancient Mariner" for both the fascinating horror of the tale as well as for the storyteller's artistry, the rhythms and sounds of words. They were easy to memorize and recite. In my random samples of children who have read the complete Harry Potter series, reveling in the magic, few have even heard of the classic poem by Samuel Coleridge. "Ancient Mariner" was once a staple of literature for both sexes.

Adolescent boys and girls have different sensibilities and sensitivities, but all can learn some of the same things. "The Ancient Mariner," like the plays of Shakespeare and the psalms of the Bible, are not gender-specific. Girls like romance more than adventure, and they devour these books. Girls read more fiction than boys. Some publishers believe the "Twilight" series about a teenage girl's romance with a vampire is popular with girls because it offers them a powerful argument to remain chaste through adolescence, "making chastity sexy," as one critic puts it, even though it's subject matter is bizarre. Girls simply don't get such encouragement in the popular culture.

The line on boys is that they don't want to read or talk about feelings. That may depend on what feelings we're talking about. "Lord of the Flies" tells a lot about the feelings of children. Both boys and girls find it fascinating when a teacher is imaginative enough to assign it.

It's clear to an observant parent, even without "the new study" to prove it, that boys are more restless, less mature, than girls of the same age. Their interests are different. Anyone can see what happens when boys and girls are grouped with their own sex. The baseball philosopher Yogi Berra said it best: "You can observe a lot just by watching."

Women earn more bachelor's and master's degrees than men, and they're gaining on men in the scientific professions. College admissions officials fear the "tipping point," where the majority of women on campus grows so large as to tip the perception of the institution to "a girls' school." Then college-bound boys will avoid it. It doesn't all start with reading, but starting with reading can be the beginning of turning things around. That's worth keeping in mind as the school bells ring across the land.

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