In this issue

Jonathan Tobin: Defending the Right to a Jewish State

Heather Hale: Compliment your kids without giving them big heads

Megan Shauri: 10 ways you are ruining your own happiness

Carolyn Bigda: 8 Best Dividend Stocks for 2015

Kiplinger's Personal Finance editors: 7 Things You Didn't Know About Paying Off Student Loans

Samantha Olson: The Crucial Mistake 55% Of Parents Are Making At Their Baby's Bedtime

Densie Well, Ph.D., R.D. Open your eyes to yellow vegetables

The Kosher Gourmet by Megan Gordon With its colorful cache of purples and oranges and reds, COLLARD GREEN SLAW is a marvelous mood booster --- not to mention just downright delish
April 18, 2014

Rabbi Yonason Goldson: Clarifying one of the greatest philosophical conundrums in theology

Caroline B. Glick: The disappearance of US will

Megan Wallgren: 10 things I've learned from my teenagers

Lizette Borreli: Green Tea Boosts Brain Power, May Help Treat Dementia

John Ericson: Trying hard to be 'positive' but never succeeding? Blame Your Brain

The Kosher Gourmet by Julie Rothman Almondy, flourless torta del re (Italian king's cake), has royal roots, is simple to make, . . . but devour it because it's simply delicious

April 14, 2014

Rabbi Dr Naftali Brawer: Passover frees us from the tyranny of time

Greg Crosby: Passing Over Religion

Eric Schulzke: First degree: How America really recovered from a murder epidemic

Georgia Lee: When love is not enough: Teaching your kids about the realities of adult relationships

Cameron Huddleston: Freebies for Your Lawn and Garden

Gordon Pape: How you can tell if your financial adviser is setting you up for potential ruin

Dana Dovey: Up to 500,000 people die each year from hepatitis C-related liver disease. New Treatment Has Over 90% Success Rate

Justin Caba: Eating Watermelon Can Help Control High Blood Pressure

The Kosher Gourmet by Joshua E. London and Lou Marmon Don't dare pass over these Pesach picks for Manischewitz!

April 11, 2014

Rabbi Hillel Goldberg: Silence is much more than golden

Caroline B. Glick: Forgetting freedom at Passover

Susan Swann: How to value a child for who he is, not just what he does

Cameron Huddleston: 7 Financial Tasks You Should Tackle Right Now

Sandra Block and Lisa Gerstner: How to Profit From Your Passion

Susan Scutti: A Simple Blood Test Might Soon Diagnose Cancer

Chris Weller: Have A Slow Metabolism? Let Science Speed It Up For You

The Kosher Gourmet by Diane Rossen Worthington Whitefish Terrine: A French take on gefilte fish

April 9, 2014

Jonathan Tobin: Why Did Kerry Lie About Israeli Blame?

Samuel G. Freedman: A resolution 70 years later for a father's unsettling legacy of ashes from Dachau

Jessica Ivins: A resolution 70 years later for a father's unsettling legacy of ashes from Dachau

Kim Giles: Asking for help is not weakness

Kathy Kristof and Barbara Hoch Marcus: 7 Great Growth Israeli Stocks

Matthew Mientka: How Beans, Peas, And Chickpeas Cleanse Bad Cholesterol and Lowers Risk of Heart Disease

Sabrina Bachai: 5 At-Home Treatments For Headaches

The Kosher Gourmet by Daniel Neman Have yourself a matzo ball: The secrets bubby never told you and recipes she could have never imagined

April 8, 2014

Lori Nawyn: At Your Wit's End and Back: Finding Peace

Susan B. Garland and Rachel L. Sheedy: Strategies Married Couples Can Use to Boost Benefits

David Muhlbaum: Smart Tax Deductions Non-Itemizers Can Claim

Jill Weisenberger, M.S., R.D.N., C.D.E : Before You Lose Your Mental Edge

Dana Dovey: Coffee Drinkers Rejoice! Your Cup Of Joe Can Prevent Death From Liver Disease

Chris Weller: Electric 'Thinking Cap' Puts Your Brain Power Into High Gear

The Kosher Gourmet by Marlene Parrish A gift of hazelnuts keeps giving --- for a variety of nutty recipes: Entree, side, soup, dessert

April 4, 2014

Rabbi David Gutterman: The Word for Nothing Means Everything

Charles Krauthammer: Kerry's folly, Chapter 3

Amy Peterson: A life of love: How to build lasting relationships with your children

John Ericson: Older Women: Save Your Heart, Prevent Stroke Don't Drink Diet

John Ericson: Why 50 million Americans will still have spring allergies after taking meds

Cameron Huddleston: Best and Worst Buys of April 2014

Stacy Rapacon: Great Mutual Funds for Young Investors

Sarah Boesveld: Teacher keeps promise to mail thousands of former students letters written by their past selves

The Kosher Gourmet by Sharon Thompson Anyone can make a salad, you say. But can they make a great salad? (SECRETS, TESTED TECHNIQUES + 4 RECIPES, INCLUDING DRESSINGS)

April 2, 2014

Paul Greenberg: Death and joy in the spring

Dan Barry: Should South Carolina Jews be forced to maintain this chimney built by Germans serving the Nazis?

Mayra Bitsko: Save me! An alien took over my child's personality

Frank Clayton: Get happy: 20 scientifically proven happiness activities

Susan Scutti: It's Genetic! Obesity and the 'Carb Breakdown' Gene

Lecia Bushak: Why Hand Sanitizer May Actually Harm Your Health

Stacy Rapacon: Great Funds You Can Own for $500 or Less

Cameron Huddleston: 7 Ways to Save on Home Decor

The Kosher Gourmet by Steve Petusevsky Exploring ingredients as edible-stuffed containers (TWO RECIPES + TIPS & TECHINQUES)

Jewish World Review

Of course Zuckerberg didn't 'like' Judaism --- why should he?

By Rabbi Dov Fischer

On 'losing' Facebook's founder and CEO

JewishWorldReview.com | Not all Jewish kids in America appreciate the depths of the heritage into which they were born. And it is hard to get the word out to all of them. On the one hand, we have the Torah. So we have Truth. But Truth does not always sell, as Madison Avenue hopes and as any vote in the U.N. General Assembly attests. So it also takes money to reach and influence lost Jews. It takes creativity. Wisdom. Kindness. Courage. Greatness.

There is no way to reach everyone. Then, even as some sweet Jewish kid finally is reached by a dynamic rabbi — well, even as someone lost is being found and reached, someone else from within our world is disappearing. Maybe because of an intolerant rabbi at a school, an abusive parent, a cold-hearted bullying classmate. Some self-righteous "pillar" who drove away a budding Torah scholar.

We reach so many. We lose so many. Even within our congregations, many gamely concede to the Bar/Bat Mitzvah Factory phenomenon because the bar mitzvah celebrations of Charlie and Willy Wonka fund the temple programming. It gets their parents to join and pay dues for two years, while the kids are between ages 11-13. It gets them to fund the Hebrew School. It gets pews to be kept warm as they are vacated by parents of others who have just reached age 13 . . . and a week. If someone were to stand in temple and declare "No more BM Factory at this shul," would parents respond by saying "OK, I guess I now have to enroll my kid in a yeshiva"? Or would they just move to the next temple down the block, regardless of denomination, and have that bar/bat mitzvah there, the same mumbling of a page of transliterated text, requiring some temple janitor to wake up on a Saturday morning a year later to open the building because that weekend they will be open on Saturday morning, too?


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Sure, it would be nice if Mark Zuckerberg were Jewishly inspired to learn Torah and his authentic roots, t'would be fabulously lovely to have him on our side. But guys that rich also know why they suddenly have so many uncles and cousins (and parents) they never before met. Suddenly everyone has something to sell them. And now here come the rabbis. We would need to stand on a long queue, waiting patiently for our turn to ask him bashfully to "LIKE" Judaism. Or at least send us a Poke. And only then, assuming he has not scotched us on a privacy setting.

And does anyone care about reaching out to Dustin Moskovitz?

This mess all happened because assimilationists institutionalized their Jewish enterprise in America first, when the massive immigration of 250,000 Jews from Germany to America unfolded between 1840-1880, less than half a century before my Bubbies and Zeydes arrived. Then, when my ancestors arrived from Russia and Poland, the landed assimilationist Jews worked at melting them, focused on driving them away from Orthodox Judaism. No stone was left unturned in the effort to tear away Orthodoxy. They were forced to drop Yiddish and attend assimilation classes at the Educational Alliance on the Lower East Side. School District Superintendent Julia Richman, one of them, gave the order to wash mouths with soap if a Jewish immigrant student were heard speaking Yiddish in the public school corridor. They were driven away — to the Catskill Mountains in upstate New York; to chicken farms in Vineland, New Jersey; to vast empty spaces in Galveston, Texas — to anywhere that would remove them from sight.

Yet, miraculously, my four grandparents escaped their devises — probably because they could not afford the streetcar or read the handbill inviting them to assimilate. The landed class of assimilationists ruined our generations artificially — not by superior intelligence, force of argument, or by a unique wisdom inherent in the religion of Isaac Mayer Wise or otherwise — but simply because they got here first, by less than half a century. Just as so many of the Russian Marxists in Labor / Mapai / Mapam did to the Crown of the Sephardic Heritage, whom they sought to assimilate away from Orthodoxy in the 1940s and 1950s when Edut HaMizrach, the Jews of North Africa, arrived in Israel.

Ours is the generation assigned to pick up the pieces. The miracle is not that maybe Zuckerberg still has not "FRIENDED" Torah and Mitzvas (religious duties). Rather, the miracle is that my Bubbie and Zeyde, who could not speak English and lived in tenements, now have grandchildren and great-grandchildren with s'mikhah, rabbinical ordination, and who are building yeshivas and populating Torah institutions. The miracle is that we have lived not only into the era that has seen the miraculous liberation of Judea and Samaria, and the reunification of Jerusalem, but also into the era that has seen the institutionalization and miraculous expansion of Torah and the Orthodox Union and Young Israel and Agudath Israel and Torah Umesorah and 60,000 at an "asifa" gathering in CitiField and is planning for 90,000 at MetLife stadium in the Meadowlands for Daf Yomi, and RIETS and all the Lithuanian yeshivas and seminaries, and the Chassidic ones, all flourishing in this strange Land of Columbus, along with a thousand rabbis in the Rabbinical Council of America, the largest rabbinical body in the world.

Every single kid in our congregations is another Zuckerberg. Every single one — the ones who are assimilated, the ones who are from Quasi-"Orthodox" families that send their kids to Ramah for summer camp and to useless Community Schools, even like the one near me in Irvine, California that does not even teach Chumash (basic Bible) or davening (prayers) from a suitable text. Every single one of those kids counts.

I wish only the best for Zuckerberg and for Annenberg and for Howard of Starbucks and for Neiman and for Marcus and for Bloomingdale and for every Jew who ever made a buck in America. But MySpace disappeared. AOL is the last place "you've got mail." These companies have their day, expand, contract, and —like mighty empires of yore — get swallowed by mightier empires that ultimately will be consumed, too. And, through it all, there is some twelve-year-old kid sitting near each of us in shul on Sabbath morning who probably could benefit from a warm smile, a "Good Shabbes" handshake, and an invitation to a Shabbes meal and an offer to sit with him, one on one, and learn a paragraph in a Gemara once-weekly. Even if the kid never amounts to anything more than a Jewish neshoma (soul).

To me, that is what Zuckerberg inspires. I look at what he created from nothing — just horsing around in the dorm after his girlfriend dumped him — and I imagine what each of us could create from just one neshoma each. A smile, a "Good Shabbes" handshake, and an offer to learn with a kid 20 or 30 minutes once a week. I "LIKE" that.

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JWR contributor Rabbi Dov Fischer, a legal affairs consultant and adjunct professor of the law of civil procedure and advanced torts, is rabbi of Young Israel of Orange County, California. He was formerly Chief Articles Editor of UCLA Law Review and writes extensively on political, cultural, and religious issues.


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© 2012, Rabbi Dov Fischer