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Jonathan Tobin: Defending the Right to a Jewish State

Heather Hale: Compliment your kids without giving them big heads

Megan Shauri: 10 ways you are ruining your own happiness

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Kiplinger's Personal Finance editors: 7 Things You Didn't Know About Paying Off Student Loans

Samantha Olson: The Crucial Mistake 55% Of Parents Are Making At Their Baby's Bedtime

Densie Well, Ph.D., R.D. Open your eyes to yellow vegetables

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Caroline B. Glick: The disappearance of US will

Megan Wallgren: 10 things I've learned from my teenagers

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John Ericson: Trying hard to be 'positive' but never succeeding? Blame Your Brain

The Kosher Gourmet by Julie Rothman Almondy, flourless torta del re (Italian king's cake), has royal roots, is simple to make, . . . but devour it because it's simply delicious

April 14, 2014

Rabbi Dr Naftali Brawer: Passover frees us from the tyranny of time

Greg Crosby: Passing Over Religion

Eric Schulzke: First degree: How America really recovered from a murder epidemic

Georgia Lee: When love is not enough: Teaching your kids about the realities of adult relationships

Cameron Huddleston: Freebies for Your Lawn and Garden

Gordon Pape: How you can tell if your financial adviser is setting you up for potential ruin

Dana Dovey: Up to 500,000 people die each year from hepatitis C-related liver disease. New Treatment Has Over 90% Success Rate

Justin Caba: Eating Watermelon Can Help Control High Blood Pressure

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April 11, 2014

Rabbi Hillel Goldberg: Silence is much more than golden

Caroline B. Glick: Forgetting freedom at Passover

Susan Swann: How to value a child for who he is, not just what he does

Cameron Huddleston: 7 Financial Tasks You Should Tackle Right Now

Sandra Block and Lisa Gerstner: How to Profit From Your Passion

Susan Scutti: A Simple Blood Test Might Soon Diagnose Cancer

Chris Weller: Have A Slow Metabolism? Let Science Speed It Up For You

The Kosher Gourmet by Diane Rossen Worthington Whitefish Terrine: A French take on gefilte fish

April 9, 2014

Jonathan Tobin: Why Did Kerry Lie About Israeli Blame?

Samuel G. Freedman: A resolution 70 years later for a father's unsettling legacy of ashes from Dachau

Jessica Ivins: A resolution 70 years later for a father's unsettling legacy of ashes from Dachau

Kim Giles: Asking for help is not weakness

Kathy Kristof and Barbara Hoch Marcus: 7 Great Growth Israeli Stocks

Matthew Mientka: How Beans, Peas, And Chickpeas Cleanse Bad Cholesterol and Lowers Risk of Heart Disease

Sabrina Bachai: 5 At-Home Treatments For Headaches

The Kosher Gourmet by Daniel Neman Have yourself a matzo ball: The secrets bubby never told you and recipes she could have never imagined

April 8, 2014

Lori Nawyn: At Your Wit's End and Back: Finding Peace

Susan B. Garland and Rachel L. Sheedy: Strategies Married Couples Can Use to Boost Benefits

David Muhlbaum: Smart Tax Deductions Non-Itemizers Can Claim

Jill Weisenberger, M.S., R.D.N., C.D.E : Before You Lose Your Mental Edge

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April 2, 2014

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Lecia Bushak: Why Hand Sanitizer May Actually Harm Your Health

Stacy Rapacon: Great Funds You Can Own for $500 or Less

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Jewish World Review April 11, 2007 / 23 Nissan, 5767

Getting past ‘Me, Myself and I’

By Jack Kelly

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http://www.JewishWorldReview.com | Danny Dietz understood that "War is an ugly thing, but not the ugliest of things. The person who has nothing for which he is willing to fight, nothing that is more important than his own personal safety, is a miserable creature and has no chance of being free unless made and kept free by the exertions of other men better than himself."

Linda Cuesta and Emily Fuchs are among the "miserable creatures" John Stuart Mill was referring to when he wrote the words above. They're trying to keep the city of Littleton, Colorado from erecting a statue in honor of Danny Dietz, a Navy SEAL who was killed in Afghanistan in 2005.

Petty Officer Dietz was posthumously awarded the Navy Cross, the second highest decoration for valor, because, though badly wounded, he fought on to permit his team mates to escape from an ambush. Ms. Cuesta and Ms. Fuchs are among a small group of parents who want to keep his home town from honoring Petty Officer Dietz because the statue depicts him with his weapon.

"This statue's proposed location is within a three block radius of two elementary schools, a middle school and two parks, each with a playground," the protesters said in an email to neighbors and the news media. "As a community, we cannot allow the many young children in this area to be exposed to a larger than life grenade-launching machine gun."

"If I've got my 4-year old at the playground, I feel it would be a threatening image that would frighten her," Ms. Fuchs said.

"They should be putting up a peace dove instead," said Ann Levy.

Ms. Cuesta told reporters she was especially sensitive to gun violence because she had a child at Columbine high school in Littleton in 1999 when two mentally disturbed students went on a shooting rampage, killing 12 students and a teacher before they killed themselves. (Ms. Cuesta's child was not among the injured.)

Petty Officer Dietz's widow, Patsy, was offended by the comparison: "It's a parent's job, including these parents who are protesting, to teach their children the difference between two thugs who murder their classmates and a soldier who died fighting for their freedom," Patsy Dietz said.

"When a dove can protect our children from religious fanatics who'd like to behead them, I'll visit the National Peace Dove Memorial," wrote Denver Post columnist David Harsanyi. "For now, I look forward to taking my kids to Littleton and explaining why guys like Danny Dietz deserve to be honored."

The city of Littleton is standing firm, and the dedication in Berry park of the statue to Petty Officer Dietz will go forward as scheduled on the Fourth of July. The vast majority of the people in the south Denver suburb support that decision.

Somehow I doubt the scorn of their neighbors will make much of an impression on Ms. Cuesta, Ms. Fuchs, Ms. Levy and others of their ilk. To modern liberals, people like Danny Dietz are a puzzlement, because for modern liberals, nothing is more important than their feelings, to which all others should make accommodation.

The emphasis contemporary liberals place on "Me, Myself and I" was neatly expressed by one Jenny Ballantine at a town meeting presidential candidate John Edwards held at the University of New Hampshire last week.

Ms. Ballantine is a 22-year-old college student who, she told Mr. Edwards, has to work part time and has student loans to pay off.

"I'm busting my ass in school, I work 25-30 hours a week, and it's just me and my dog," Ms. Ballantine told Mr. Edwards. "So what can you do for people in my situation?..You know what? It's about me. It's about me voting for you or supporting somebody who's going to be the next president. So it's all about me right now. Just give me something."

Danny Dietz was just a little bit older than Ms. Ballantine when he died. Many who have perished in Iraq or Afghanistan — to preserve the freedom for Ms. Ballantine to pursue her dreams of a graduate degree — were younger.

Mr. Edwards praised Ms. Ballantine's single minded focus on herself. "If I were choosing a president, uh, that's what I'd be doing," he said.

"I was really impressed with you, Jenny Ballantine, and I think probably everybody in this room was," chimed in Mr. Edwards' wife, Elizabeth. At Ms. Edwards' instigation, the audience gave Ms. Ballantine a rousing round of applause.

We've come a long way down a bad road from John F. Kennedy, who just a generation ago told young people: "Ask not what your country can do for you. Ask what you can do for your country."

JFK would have understood Danny Dietz. What would he make of Jenny Ballantine?

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