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Jonathan Tobin: Defending the Right to a Jewish State

Heather Hale: Compliment your kids without giving them big heads

Megan Shauri: 10 ways you are ruining your own happiness

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Densie Well, Ph.D., R.D. Open your eyes to yellow vegetables

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Rabbi Yonason Goldson: Clarifying one of the greatest philosophical conundrums in theology

Caroline B. Glick: The disappearance of US will

Megan Wallgren: 10 things I've learned from my teenagers

Lizette Borreli: Green Tea Boosts Brain Power, May Help Treat Dementia

John Ericson: Trying hard to be 'positive' but never succeeding? Blame Your Brain

The Kosher Gourmet by Julie Rothman Almondy, flourless torta del re (Italian king's cake), has royal roots, is simple to make, . . . but devour it because it's simply delicious

April 14, 2014

Rabbi Dr Naftali Brawer: Passover frees us from the tyranny of time

Greg Crosby: Passing Over Religion

Eric Schulzke: First degree: How America really recovered from a murder epidemic

Georgia Lee: When love is not enough: Teaching your kids about the realities of adult relationships

Cameron Huddleston: Freebies for Your Lawn and Garden

Gordon Pape: How you can tell if your financial adviser is setting you up for potential ruin

Dana Dovey: Up to 500,000 people die each year from hepatitis C-related liver disease. New Treatment Has Over 90% Success Rate

Justin Caba: Eating Watermelon Can Help Control High Blood Pressure

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April 11, 2014

Rabbi Hillel Goldberg: Silence is much more than golden

Caroline B. Glick: Forgetting freedom at Passover

Susan Swann: How to value a child for who he is, not just what he does

Cameron Huddleston: 7 Financial Tasks You Should Tackle Right Now

Sandra Block and Lisa Gerstner: How to Profit From Your Passion

Susan Scutti: A Simple Blood Test Might Soon Diagnose Cancer

Chris Weller: Have A Slow Metabolism? Let Science Speed It Up For You

The Kosher Gourmet by Diane Rossen Worthington Whitefish Terrine: A French take on gefilte fish

April 9, 2014

Jonathan Tobin: Why Did Kerry Lie About Israeli Blame?

Samuel G. Freedman: A resolution 70 years later for a father's unsettling legacy of ashes from Dachau

Jessica Ivins: A resolution 70 years later for a father's unsettling legacy of ashes from Dachau

Kim Giles: Asking for help is not weakness

Kathy Kristof and Barbara Hoch Marcus: 7 Great Growth Israeli Stocks

Matthew Mientka: How Beans, Peas, And Chickpeas Cleanse Bad Cholesterol and Lowers Risk of Heart Disease

Sabrina Bachai: 5 At-Home Treatments For Headaches

The Kosher Gourmet by Daniel Neman Have yourself a matzo ball: The secrets bubby never told you and recipes she could have never imagined

April 8, 2014

Lori Nawyn: At Your Wit's End and Back: Finding Peace

Susan B. Garland and Rachel L. Sheedy: Strategies Married Couples Can Use to Boost Benefits

David Muhlbaum: Smart Tax Deductions Non-Itemizers Can Claim

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Amy Peterson: A life of love: How to build lasting relationships with your children

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April 2, 2014

Paul Greenberg: Death and joy in the spring

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Lecia Bushak: Why Hand Sanitizer May Actually Harm Your Health

Stacy Rapacon: Great Funds You Can Own for $500 or Less

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Jewish World Review April 26, 2005 / 17 Nisan, 5765

The right to know

By Alvin Williams

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http://www.JewishWorldReview.com | When Marcia Carroll sent her 14-year-old daughter to the bus stop, as she did every school day, she had no idea her daughter was about to be pressured into a life-changing decision without her knowledge or consent.

At the urging of her boyfriend's parents, Carroll's pregnant daughter decided to have an abortion.

To skirt Pennsylvania's parent-notification law, the boyfriend's parents arranged for the girl to go to New Jersey. There, the fetus was aborted.

Sadly, this is business as usual. Every day, hundreds of minors cross state lines — often with the cooperation or assistance of adults — to have abortions that would require parental notification at home.

Efforts are now being made to end the extralegal end run. The Child Interstate Abortion Notification Act would make it illegal to transport minors across state lines for abortions if the purpose of such transport is to evade parent notification laws. The subject of early March hearings before the House Judiciary Committee's constitutional subcommittee, the legislation obviously is needed and long overdue.

Marcia Carroll and her husband were supportive parents who took great pains to assist their daughter after they learned of her pregnancy. As Carroll told members of Congress on March 3, "My daughter chose to have the baby and raise it. My family fully supported my daughter's decision to keep her baby and offered her our love and support."

According to Carroll's congressional testimony, the decision didn't sit well with the family of their daughter's boyfriend. They "began to harass my daughter and my family. They started showing up at our house to express their desire for my daughter to have an abortion. When that did not work, his grandmother started calling my daughter without my knowledge. They would tell her that if she kept the baby she couldn't see her boyfriend again." They even "threatened to move out of state."

The Carrolls didn't budge. "I told his family that my daughter had our full support in her decision to keep the baby. She also had the best doctors, counselors and professionals to help her through the pregnancy. We all had her best interests in mind."

The Carrolls knew, of course, that since their daughter was younger than 16, she couldn't have an abortion without their consent. That's what Pennsylvania law says. It didn't occur to them that, behind their backs, their daughter might be whisked away to another state for an abortion.

"On February 16, I sent my daughter to her bus stop with $2 of lunch money. I thought she was safe at school. She and her boyfriend even had a prenatal class scheduled after school."

She never showed up, however. Instead, the boyfriend's family arranged for her and her boyfriend to travel by train to Philadelphia. From there, they took the subway to New Jersey. "That is where his family met the children and took them to the abortion clinic."

When her daughter "started to cry and have second thoughts, they told her they would leave her in New Jersey,'' Carroll told Congress. "They planned, paid for, coerced, harassed and threatened her into having an abortion."

The Carrolls were sickened and shocked when their daughter returned home sobbing and recounted the day's events.

Thirty-four states currently have parental notification laws. Unfortunately, they are too often and easily circumvented and ignored, simply by going to another state.

The Child Interstate Abortion Notification Act will provide families like the Carrolls with at least some assurance that their state laws will be observed — by both their underage children and adults who might conspire with, or pressure them to cross into another state for an abortion.

Every night, Marcia Carroll says, her young daughter is brought to tears as she remembers her experience in New Jersey.

According to public opinion polls, Americans overwhelmingly support laws requiring parental involvement in the abortion decisions of minor girls. The support extends across all demographic categories: men and women; young and old; white, black and Hispanic.

Let's hope Congress passes the proposed legislation expeditiously, so other families don't have to face the tragedy that continues to haunt the Carrolls.

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