A pinata is a festive party item, usually shaped like a classic fairy-tale character such as Spider Man; it is used to traumatize children at birthday parties. This has become very popular. As the parent of a 3—year—old, I attend approximately 84 birthday parties per weekend, and every one has a pinata, as well as (this is federal law) a clown.

In fact, it was a clown at a recent party who got me thinking about pinata safety. She had been clowning professionally for 20 years, which is a long time — maybe too long — to be spending every weekend wearing comical pants and a scratchy wig, endlessly twisting balloons into shapes for children who, over the years, have become harder to please, who aren't satisfied with your classic balloon dog or balloon sword, no, these kids want balloon versions of every licensed character that comes along — they want Nemo, they want Lilo, they want STITCH for godsakes, and when you try to warn them — when you say, "Don't take the balloon outside! You'll pop it!" — they go outside anyway and … POP, now they're crying, and they want you to make Stitch AGAIN, and … and that's pretty much how this clown sounded. Her technique for creating a magical mood for the children was to bark things like, "Be careful on those chairs! You'll fall over backward and crack your head!"

So anyway, I was with my daughter, who was waiting, a tad apprehensively, for Grumpy the Clown to paint her face, and some dads were trying to hang the pinata — a Buzz Lightyear model — from a nearby tree. Buzz was smiling brightly, not realizing that children would soon be beating him with a stick. That's what children do with pinatas. And the thing is, the children become increasingly violent, because pinatas — ask any parent — are almost impossible to break open. For some reason, they are built to withstand a nuclear attack. We should get the pinata manufacturers to make cars; nobody would ever be hurt in an accident again.

But getting back to the party, Grumpy the Clown was recalling the first birthday party she worked:

"They had a pinata, and it fell down and hit the birthday boy and gave him a big cut over his eye. There was blood everywhere. We were singing 'Happy Birthday' and he was on his way to the emergency room."

This reminded another parent of a party where there was no tree they could hang the pinata from, so he volunteered to hold the pinata, dangling it from a string in his hand, and needless to say the birthday boy, who was blindfolded, nailed him in the ribs with the stick.