In this issue

Jonathan Tobin: Defending the Right to a Jewish State

Heather Hale: Compliment your kids without giving them big heads

Megan Shauri: 10 ways you are ruining your own happiness

Carolyn Bigda: 8 Best Dividend Stocks for 2015

Kiplinger's Personal Finance editors: 7 Things You Didn't Know About Paying Off Student Loans

Samantha Olson: The Crucial Mistake 55% Of Parents Are Making At Their Baby's Bedtime

Densie Well, Ph.D., R.D. Open your eyes to yellow vegetables

The Kosher Gourmet by Megan Gordon With its colorful cache of purples and oranges and reds, COLLARD GREEN SLAW is a marvelous mood booster --- not to mention just downright delish
April 18, 2014

Rabbi Yonason Goldson: Clarifying one of the greatest philosophical conundrums in theology

Caroline B. Glick: The disappearance of US will

Megan Wallgren: 10 things I've learned from my teenagers

Lizette Borreli: Green Tea Boosts Brain Power, May Help Treat Dementia

John Ericson: Trying hard to be 'positive' but never succeeding? Blame Your Brain

The Kosher Gourmet by Julie Rothman Almondy, flourless torta del re (Italian king's cake), has royal roots, is simple to make, . . . but devour it because it's simply delicious

April 14, 2014

Rabbi Dr Naftali Brawer: Passover frees us from the tyranny of time

Greg Crosby: Passing Over Religion

Eric Schulzke: First degree: How America really recovered from a murder epidemic

Georgia Lee: When love is not enough: Teaching your kids about the realities of adult relationships

Cameron Huddleston: Freebies for Your Lawn and Garden

Gordon Pape: How you can tell if your financial adviser is setting you up for potential ruin

Dana Dovey: Up to 500,000 people die each year from hepatitis C-related liver disease. New Treatment Has Over 90% Success Rate

Justin Caba: Eating Watermelon Can Help Control High Blood Pressure

The Kosher Gourmet by Joshua E. London and Lou Marmon Don't dare pass over these Pesach picks for Manischewitz!

April 11, 2014

Rabbi Hillel Goldberg: Silence is much more than golden

Caroline B. Glick: Forgetting freedom at Passover

Susan Swann: How to value a child for who he is, not just what he does

Cameron Huddleston: 7 Financial Tasks You Should Tackle Right Now

Sandra Block and Lisa Gerstner: How to Profit From Your Passion

Susan Scutti: A Simple Blood Test Might Soon Diagnose Cancer

Chris Weller: Have A Slow Metabolism? Let Science Speed It Up For You

The Kosher Gourmet by Diane Rossen Worthington Whitefish Terrine: A French take on gefilte fish

April 9, 2014

Jonathan Tobin: Why Did Kerry Lie About Israeli Blame?

Samuel G. Freedman: A resolution 70 years later for a father's unsettling legacy of ashes from Dachau

Jessica Ivins: A resolution 70 years later for a father's unsettling legacy of ashes from Dachau

Kim Giles: Asking for help is not weakness

Kathy Kristof and Barbara Hoch Marcus: 7 Great Growth Israeli Stocks

Matthew Mientka: How Beans, Peas, And Chickpeas Cleanse Bad Cholesterol and Lowers Risk of Heart Disease

Sabrina Bachai: 5 At-Home Treatments For Headaches

The Kosher Gourmet by Daniel Neman Have yourself a matzo ball: The secrets bubby never told you and recipes she could have never imagined

April 8, 2014

Lori Nawyn: At Your Wit's End and Back: Finding Peace

Susan B. Garland and Rachel L. Sheedy: Strategies Married Couples Can Use to Boost Benefits

David Muhlbaum: Smart Tax Deductions Non-Itemizers Can Claim

Jill Weisenberger, M.S., R.D.N., C.D.E : Before You Lose Your Mental Edge

Dana Dovey: Coffee Drinkers Rejoice! Your Cup Of Joe Can Prevent Death From Liver Disease

Chris Weller: Electric 'Thinking Cap' Puts Your Brain Power Into High Gear

The Kosher Gourmet by Marlene Parrish A gift of hazelnuts keeps giving --- for a variety of nutty recipes: Entree, side, soup, dessert

April 4, 2014

Rabbi David Gutterman: The Word for Nothing Means Everything

Charles Krauthammer: Kerry's folly, Chapter 3

Amy Peterson: A life of love: How to build lasting relationships with your children

John Ericson: Older Women: Save Your Heart, Prevent Stroke Don't Drink Diet

John Ericson: Why 50 million Americans will still have spring allergies after taking meds

Cameron Huddleston: Best and Worst Buys of April 2014

Stacy Rapacon: Great Mutual Funds for Young Investors

Sarah Boesveld: Teacher keeps promise to mail thousands of former students letters written by their past selves

The Kosher Gourmet by Sharon Thompson Anyone can make a salad, you say. But can they make a great salad? (SECRETS, TESTED TECHNIQUES + 4 RECIPES, INCLUDING DRESSINGS)

April 2, 2014

Paul Greenberg: Death and joy in the spring

Dan Barry: Should South Carolina Jews be forced to maintain this chimney built by Germans serving the Nazis?

Mayra Bitsko: Save me! An alien took over my child's personality

Frank Clayton: Get happy: 20 scientifically proven happiness activities

Susan Scutti: It's Genetic! Obesity and the 'Carb Breakdown' Gene

Lecia Bushak: Why Hand Sanitizer May Actually Harm Your Health

Stacy Rapacon: Great Funds You Can Own for $500 or Less

Cameron Huddleston: 7 Ways to Save on Home Decor

The Kosher Gourmet by Steve Petusevsky Exploring ingredients as edible-stuffed containers (TWO RECIPES + TIPS & TECHINQUES)

Jewish World Review May 31, 2013/ 22 Sivan 5773

On leaving the hospital

By Paul Greenberg

http://www.JewishWorldReview.com | It was just a little sunspot that needed removing. That's what my dermatologist told me. She'd been monitoring it for months, maybe years, and now a biopsy had confirmed her diagnosis and recommendation. It had to go. It was just minor, routine surgery, she assured me. Minor, routine surgery to her. And to the competent, expeditious surgeon she'd recommended. But it was my little sunspot, and my minor, routine surgery, which meant it wasn't little or minor or routine at all. No, I'm not a nervous patient. Not much.

But now the spot was gone, and so was I -- out the same revolving door through which I'd entered the hospital that morning. But everything had changed after a couple of hours in a windowless operating room. The sun was brighter, the air cleaner, the colors clearer, the sounds sharper. It was like getting new lenses in my glasses. Somebody had come around and sharpened all the lines around everything while I was in there and filled them in with new, vivid colors. The greenery, the clouds, the people on the street, the cars zooming past, the familiar landmarks ... they were all so sharp now, and life -- of every sort -- so beautiful.

The apprehension wasn't there anymore. Lifted away. The relief was palpable. Time opened before me like a new horizon. The surgeon had told me to take it easy for the rest of the day, maybe two. Stay home, he'd said, no exertion. Just to be on the safe side. Let myself be waited on hand and foot. Naturally I did. It was Doctor's Orders. And I intended to enjoy every moment of my recuperation.

No routine chores for me this beautiful day. And that included going into the office to read the page proofs, a lot of good it does. A typo or two inevitably slips by anyway. It happens in the best of publications. My favorite little magazine, The New Criterion, must be the best written and poorest proofread of any of the many I find in my mailbox.

Sure enough, the old type gremlins, now computerized and paginated and up-to-date in every way, but just as mysterious and mischievous as they ever were, still manage to insert a typo or two into our editorials. Or conspire to delete an essential word. I shouldn't mind; it seems to gratify our readers so, or at least the kind who are quick to dash off an email bringing it to my attention -- after the paper's already out.

An old editor I knew used to have a standard reply in those circumstances: "Congratulations, Alert Reader! You've just spotted one of the two typographical errors we make a point of slipping into our editorials daily for the delectation of those of our readers who love to search for them...."

I've never worked up the nerve -- the rudeness, really -- to adopt his response as my own, though any editor can understand the temptation.

Today there'd be no editing, no writing, no reading page proofs for me. Just rest-and-recuperation. And I was going to luxuriate in it.

It wasn't just the bright beauty of the day, the feeling of being off the clock, that was so exhilarating. It took me a moment to realize the deeper reason for this calm sense of well-being. It was the promise of solitude, of being alone, just me and my self -- except of course when I wanted a cup of tea, a bite to eat, or my pillow fluffed. ... No, I'm not spoiled. Not much.

In his classic essay on solitude, Montaigne praises it as a time when a man can put worldly concerns behind him and ruminate on his experiences and its lessons, all of which Montaigne does so well in his essay. But it is not any connection with the past, or with the future for that matter, that makes solitude so appealing to us loners. But its immediate, overwhelming effect on the present, which has suddenly been expanded into a palace of time. I can sense the spaciousness of it on leaving the hospital, wearing my bandage like a military decoration.

The day opens up before me like a great garden never walked in before, holding out unfilled time like a bouquet. Time is suspended in place. The clock has stopped ticking. I take off my wristwatch. Who needs it now?

Ah, bought time. Time to do nothing but just to sit back and look at things, maybe even really see them for once. Everything shines with a new intensity, or maybe an old intensity, the intensity of childhood when time is slowed and every sensation is deeply felt, imprinted, savored. Even boredom.

May Sarton, no mean essayist herself, whose journals are still read and re-read, and should be, left behind this piece of advice for those who write for a living: "Remember to write what you are seeing every day, and if you are going to hold the reader's attention, you must write very well. And what does writing well mean? It means seeing well...." Ms. Sarton reminded those of us who comment on the ephemeral news of the day that "what's important about life is not the major calamities or joys but just living the day, just seeing the light on the wall."

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