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April 14, 2014

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April 11, 2014

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Jewish World Review July 24, 2008 / 21 Tamuz 5768

They Had Voices Then, Too

By Greg Crosby

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http://www.JewishWorldReview.com | Whenever people compare golden age Hollywood stars to the actors of today it's often said that "they had faces then" - which is very true. Stars back then had individuality, each one a unique look, a distinctive personality. But they had something else, too, something that I was never conscious of until recently - the great stars had unique voices as well as looks.

Listen to Joan Crawford's voice, and then listen to Bette Davis' voice, then Barbara Stanwyck, Katharine Hepburn, Judy Garland, Lauren Becall, June Allison's voice - each one is unique. The cadence, the rhythm, the inflections - all different. Every one of these actresses had her own personality which manifested itself in her voice.

And just think how Clark Gable sounded. Humphrey Bogart, Spencer Tracy, Jimmy Stewart, William Powell, Gary Cooper, James Cagney, Edward G. Robinson. Each had his own voice. They didn't try to sound like each other, as it seems today's actors try to do. Each man sounded differently and yet each man sounded like a man.

Now think of Brad Pitt's voice. Think of Matt Damon's voice. Try to hear Ben Affleck's voice or Tom Cruise's voice or Leonardo DiCaprio's voice. Distinctive? Individual? Could a celebrity impressionist impersonate each of their voices so that you would know who it was? Think of Cameron Diaz's voice, Meg Ryan's, Sandra Bullock's or Julia Roberts'. How different do they sound from each other? Compare Lindsay Lohan's voice to any other young female actresses' voice and try to tell them apart. I dare you.

In voice, looks, actions, and personality there is a definite absence of individuality. This lack of individuality isn't so much the fault of contemporary actors themselves as it is the changing times in which we live. The "sameness" in people is apparent wherever you look. Walk into a shopping mall and check out the way people - all ages of people - dress, listen to the way they talk, how they act, etc. All the same.

People in general want to look, sound and act like everybody else. Conforming to the group is more important today than it ever has been. It was always important for kids in school to sound, look, and act like everyone else. Kids, especially teens, do not want to stand apart from their peers. They want to be accepted by their group. But in the old days, you grew out of it. You matured and began to realize that the most important thing is to be yourself. Now it's different. Now even adults want to be like kids, and that means looking and acting and talking like all the other kids.

Why a thirty-something woman would want to sound like a teenager is way beyond me. "I was, like, whoaaa! That is so cool!" is not exactly the sentence of a sophisticated woman, is it? Why a forty-something man would want to wear cargo shorts pulled down below his belly, flip-flops, and a baseball hat is something I have no answer for. It's not as though the clothing and jargon of youth is so attractive - au contraire, they're ugly! But never mind. It's "youthful" so we do it!

I've almost always been one to go against the grain, even in school. There was a period for me in junior high, however, when I did consciously try to conform to the other kids. I had a surfer style Pendleton wool shirt which I wore with my white Levis and huarache sandals. And I did let my hair grow long in keeping with the times.

But I think that was pretty much as far as I went, and I soon learned an important lesson - looking and sounding like the other kids didn't make me any more acceptable or popular. I also learned that being popular wasn't all that important to me. Ever since then I've taken a great deal of pride in being myself - which much of the time meant looking different from my peer group. I always preferred to be ahead of the curve as opposed to being part of the gang. I may not be popular, but that's okay - I'm not running for public office and I'm not trying to climb the corporate ladder to success.

It is much easier to go along with the group, I think. It isn't necessarily easy to be yourself. First of all, you've got to figure out just who you are. Then you've got to come to grips with it - do you really like who you are? If you don't like who you are, then you're kind of stuck. Although I guess you can change who you are - Cary Grant did it. He went from plain Archibald Leach to elegant Cary Grant.

For me, I kept my own identity. And for better or worse, I always had my own voice. Out of tune, off key, a little raspy, but it's all mine. Truth to tell, however, if I had a choice, I'd much rather have sounded like Cary Grant.

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