In this issue

Jonathan Tobin: Defending the Right to a Jewish State

Heather Hale: Compliment your kids without giving them big heads

Megan Shauri: 10 ways you are ruining your own happiness

Carolyn Bigda: 8 Best Dividend Stocks for 2015

Kiplinger's Personal Finance editors: 7 Things You Didn't Know About Paying Off Student Loans

Samantha Olson: The Crucial Mistake 55% Of Parents Are Making At Their Baby's Bedtime

Densie Well, Ph.D., R.D. Open your eyes to yellow vegetables

The Kosher Gourmet by Megan Gordon With its colorful cache of purples and oranges and reds, COLLARD GREEN SLAW is a marvelous mood booster --- not to mention just downright delish
April 18, 2014

Rabbi Yonason Goldson: Clarifying one of the greatest philosophical conundrums in theology

Caroline B. Glick: The disappearance of US will

Megan Wallgren: 10 things I've learned from my teenagers

Lizette Borreli: Green Tea Boosts Brain Power, May Help Treat Dementia

John Ericson: Trying hard to be 'positive' but never succeeding? Blame Your Brain

The Kosher Gourmet by Julie Rothman Almondy, flourless torta del re (Italian king's cake), has royal roots, is simple to make, . . . but devour it because it's simply delicious

April 14, 2014

Rabbi Dr Naftali Brawer: Passover frees us from the tyranny of time

Greg Crosby: Passing Over Religion

Eric Schulzke: First degree: How America really recovered from a murder epidemic

Georgia Lee: When love is not enough: Teaching your kids about the realities of adult relationships

Cameron Huddleston: Freebies for Your Lawn and Garden

Gordon Pape: How you can tell if your financial adviser is setting you up for potential ruin

Dana Dovey: Up to 500,000 people die each year from hepatitis C-related liver disease. New Treatment Has Over 90% Success Rate

Justin Caba: Eating Watermelon Can Help Control High Blood Pressure

The Kosher Gourmet by Joshua E. London and Lou Marmon Don't dare pass over these Pesach picks for Manischewitz!

April 11, 2014

Rabbi Hillel Goldberg: Silence is much more than golden

Caroline B. Glick: Forgetting freedom at Passover

Susan Swann: How to value a child for who he is, not just what he does

Cameron Huddleston: 7 Financial Tasks You Should Tackle Right Now

Sandra Block and Lisa Gerstner: How to Profit From Your Passion

Susan Scutti: A Simple Blood Test Might Soon Diagnose Cancer

Chris Weller: Have A Slow Metabolism? Let Science Speed It Up For You

The Kosher Gourmet by Diane Rossen Worthington Whitefish Terrine: A French take on gefilte fish

April 9, 2014

Jonathan Tobin: Why Did Kerry Lie About Israeli Blame?

Samuel G. Freedman: A resolution 70 years later for a father's unsettling legacy of ashes from Dachau

Jessica Ivins: A resolution 70 years later for a father's unsettling legacy of ashes from Dachau

Kim Giles: Asking for help is not weakness

Kathy Kristof and Barbara Hoch Marcus: 7 Great Growth Israeli Stocks

Matthew Mientka: How Beans, Peas, And Chickpeas Cleanse Bad Cholesterol and Lowers Risk of Heart Disease

Sabrina Bachai: 5 At-Home Treatments For Headaches

The Kosher Gourmet by Daniel Neman Have yourself a matzo ball: The secrets bubby never told you and recipes she could have never imagined

April 8, 2014

Lori Nawyn: At Your Wit's End and Back: Finding Peace

Susan B. Garland and Rachel L. Sheedy: Strategies Married Couples Can Use to Boost Benefits

David Muhlbaum: Smart Tax Deductions Non-Itemizers Can Claim

Jill Weisenberger, M.S., R.D.N., C.D.E : Before You Lose Your Mental Edge

Dana Dovey: Coffee Drinkers Rejoice! Your Cup Of Joe Can Prevent Death From Liver Disease

Chris Weller: Electric 'Thinking Cap' Puts Your Brain Power Into High Gear

The Kosher Gourmet by Marlene Parrish A gift of hazelnuts keeps giving --- for a variety of nutty recipes: Entree, side, soup, dessert

April 4, 2014

Rabbi David Gutterman: The Word for Nothing Means Everything

Charles Krauthammer: Kerry's folly, Chapter 3

Amy Peterson: A life of love: How to build lasting relationships with your children

John Ericson: Older Women: Save Your Heart, Prevent Stroke Don't Drink Diet

John Ericson: Why 50 million Americans will still have spring allergies after taking meds

Cameron Huddleston: Best and Worst Buys of April 2014

Stacy Rapacon: Great Mutual Funds for Young Investors

Sarah Boesveld: Teacher keeps promise to mail thousands of former students letters written by their past selves

The Kosher Gourmet by Sharon Thompson Anyone can make a salad, you say. But can they make a great salad? (SECRETS, TESTED TECHNIQUES + 4 RECIPES, INCLUDING DRESSINGS)

April 2, 2014

Paul Greenberg: Death and joy in the spring

Dan Barry: Should South Carolina Jews be forced to maintain this chimney built by Germans serving the Nazis?

Mayra Bitsko: Save me! An alien took over my child's personality

Frank Clayton: Get happy: 20 scientifically proven happiness activities

Susan Scutti: It's Genetic! Obesity and the 'Carb Breakdown' Gene

Lecia Bushak: Why Hand Sanitizer May Actually Harm Your Health

Stacy Rapacon: Great Funds You Can Own for $500 or Less

Cameron Huddleston: 7 Ways to Save on Home Decor

The Kosher Gourmet by Steve Petusevsky Exploring ingredients as edible-stuffed containers (TWO RECIPES + TIPS & TECHINQUES)

Jewish World Review July 19, 2013/ 12 Menachem-Av, 5773

Sticks and Stones

By Greg Crosby

http://www.JewishWorldReview.com | What is a crime? What is considered unacceptable behavior in our society? What are the worst things a person can do? What is it that stigmatizes a person today? Things that once were major offences and unacceptable behavior are deemed okay or at least not so bad nowadays. On the other hand, things that were once okay or even considered normal are now considered wrong, unacceptable and evil.

For example, today there is no social stigma to having a child out of wedlock, but just try to have a cigarette in public without feeling like a criminal. If you are born a man but feel more comfortable dressed up like a women to go to work, no problem. However if you attend church or synagogue every week and live by the bible you must be some kind of weirdo.

Once upon a time holding a door open for a women or standing when she entered a room was considered gallant and polite, today you're considered to be a no-good chauvinistic pig. In the old days if a guy came on to a girl and she made it clear she didn't want anything to do with him but he continued to ask her out, he was considered a creepy wolf-type. Now, he's labeled a sexual pervert and he's libel for a sexual harassment charge resulting in loss of his job, imprisonment, or both. Our world has changed. Civilized mores have become topsy-turvy.

This is a topic worthy of book length analysis; I couldn't cover it all here even if I wanted to. But let's just take words for instance, and how the use of them has altered greatly in the past fifty years or so. Words are the cornerstone of communication, the foundation of free speech. Words are a free society's first line of defense against tyranny, which is why the first amendment to the Constitution requires that Congress shall make no laws abridging the freedom of speech.

"Sticks and stones can break my bones, but words can never hurt me," is one of those little life lessons we're all taught growing up, a way of dealing with bullies or anyone else who calls us names or tries to hurt us with words. It may sound somewhat corny or trite, but it is one of the truest things in the world.

Sure, words have consequences and words can have the strength to alter the course of human events, but at the same time words are merely words, which in and of themselves cannot do anyone bodily harm. Calling someone a nasty name may not be very nice, but it is not the same as picking up a rock and smashing it on someone's head. Actions are what should matter, not words.

Thanks to liberal dogma, political correctness, out of control litigiousness, and college and workplace "speech codes" we have a society that thinks using certain words or calling someone a "name" can be the worst thing a person can do, a crime worthy of jail time or other severe penalties.

To utter a racial epithet (even in private) is to commit a crime more heinous than theft, or even murder; after all, there can be extenuating circumstances for murder. In today's uber-progressive society there is absolutely no justification for racial name-calling. To engage in this will result in being labeled a racist, period. No matter how you have lived your life otherwise, no matter if your actions and dealings with others have been exemplary, you are still the scum of the earth. Just ask Paula Dean or Michael Richards.

Using racial slurs is never nice; it is disgusting and inappropriate behavior. It is low class and unnecessary. But should it be a hate crime? Should telling racial jokes be considered as bad as going out and physically harming someone? If you tell an off-color sex joke, or what used to be called a "dirty joke" are you slurring women? And is that a hate crime?

What I hate most about this new, liberal speech code of ours is that it has no sense of humor. Remember that Korean airline that crash landed last week due to pilot error? It seems the head pilot was a trainee who never flew that type of plane before. The crash led to three deaths and scores of passenger injuries.

Well, the airline has filed a law suit against a San Francisco TV station because they aired silly joke names of their pilots. The station got the names from the National Transportation Safety Board, which blamed the embarrassing incident on a "summer intern," saying he acted outside the scope of his authority.

The station reported the pilots as "Captain Sum Ting Wong, Wi Tu Lo, Ho Lee Fuk and Bang Ding Ow" - fake names meant as a harmless joke by some intern. But instead of focusing on getting to the bottom of the crash, the airline decided to become indignant at the "racial slur." "The derogatory report defamed Asiana and its pilots," Asiana spokesman Suh Ki-won said. "We made the determination that it caused great harm to our reputation."

Really? Or maybe the harm to their reputation was due to the crash caused by poorly trained pilots sitting in the cockpit who didn't know what the hell they were doing.

But in today's world, name calling is a bigger crime than even crashing a jumbo jet.

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