In this issue

Jonathan Tobin: Defending the Right to a Jewish State

Heather Hale: Compliment your kids without giving them big heads

Megan Shauri: 10 ways you are ruining your own happiness

Carolyn Bigda: 8 Best Dividend Stocks for 2015

Kiplinger's Personal Finance editors: 7 Things You Didn't Know About Paying Off Student Loans

Samantha Olson: The Crucial Mistake 55% Of Parents Are Making At Their Baby's Bedtime

Densie Well, Ph.D., R.D. Open your eyes to yellow vegetables

The Kosher Gourmet by Megan Gordon With its colorful cache of purples and oranges and reds, COLLARD GREEN SLAW is a marvelous mood booster --- not to mention just downright delish
April 18, 2014

Rabbi Yonason Goldson: Clarifying one of the greatest philosophical conundrums in theology

Caroline B. Glick: The disappearance of US will

Megan Wallgren: 10 things I've learned from my teenagers

Lizette Borreli: Green Tea Boosts Brain Power, May Help Treat Dementia

John Ericson: Trying hard to be 'positive' but never succeeding? Blame Your Brain

The Kosher Gourmet by Julie Rothman Almondy, flourless torta del re (Italian king's cake), has royal roots, is simple to make, . . . but devour it because it's simply delicious

April 14, 2014

Rabbi Dr Naftali Brawer: Passover frees us from the tyranny of time

Greg Crosby: Passing Over Religion

Eric Schulzke: First degree: How America really recovered from a murder epidemic

Georgia Lee: When love is not enough: Teaching your kids about the realities of adult relationships

Cameron Huddleston: Freebies for Your Lawn and Garden

Gordon Pape: How you can tell if your financial adviser is setting you up for potential ruin

Dana Dovey: Up to 500,000 people die each year from hepatitis C-related liver disease. New Treatment Has Over 90% Success Rate

Justin Caba: Eating Watermelon Can Help Control High Blood Pressure

The Kosher Gourmet by Joshua E. London and Lou Marmon Don't dare pass over these Pesach picks for Manischewitz!

April 11, 2014

Rabbi Hillel Goldberg: Silence is much more than golden

Caroline B. Glick: Forgetting freedom at Passover

Susan Swann: How to value a child for who he is, not just what he does

Cameron Huddleston: 7 Financial Tasks You Should Tackle Right Now

Sandra Block and Lisa Gerstner: How to Profit From Your Passion

Susan Scutti: A Simple Blood Test Might Soon Diagnose Cancer

Chris Weller: Have A Slow Metabolism? Let Science Speed It Up For You

The Kosher Gourmet by Diane Rossen Worthington Whitefish Terrine: A French take on gefilte fish

April 9, 2014

Jonathan Tobin: Why Did Kerry Lie About Israeli Blame?

Samuel G. Freedman: A resolution 70 years later for a father's unsettling legacy of ashes from Dachau

Jessica Ivins: A resolution 70 years later for a father's unsettling legacy of ashes from Dachau

Kim Giles: Asking for help is not weakness

Kathy Kristof and Barbara Hoch Marcus: 7 Great Growth Israeli Stocks

Matthew Mientka: How Beans, Peas, And Chickpeas Cleanse Bad Cholesterol and Lowers Risk of Heart Disease

Sabrina Bachai: 5 At-Home Treatments For Headaches

The Kosher Gourmet by Daniel Neman Have yourself a matzo ball: The secrets bubby never told you and recipes she could have never imagined

April 8, 2014

Lori Nawyn: At Your Wit's End and Back: Finding Peace

Susan B. Garland and Rachel L. Sheedy: Strategies Married Couples Can Use to Boost Benefits

David Muhlbaum: Smart Tax Deductions Non-Itemizers Can Claim

Jill Weisenberger, M.S., R.D.N., C.D.E : Before You Lose Your Mental Edge

Dana Dovey: Coffee Drinkers Rejoice! Your Cup Of Joe Can Prevent Death From Liver Disease

Chris Weller: Electric 'Thinking Cap' Puts Your Brain Power Into High Gear

The Kosher Gourmet by Marlene Parrish A gift of hazelnuts keeps giving --- for a variety of nutty recipes: Entree, side, soup, dessert

April 4, 2014

Rabbi David Gutterman: The Word for Nothing Means Everything

Charles Krauthammer: Kerry's folly, Chapter 3

Amy Peterson: A life of love: How to build lasting relationships with your children

John Ericson: Older Women: Save Your Heart, Prevent Stroke Don't Drink Diet

John Ericson: Why 50 million Americans will still have spring allergies after taking meds

Cameron Huddleston: Best and Worst Buys of April 2014

Stacy Rapacon: Great Mutual Funds for Young Investors

Sarah Boesveld: Teacher keeps promise to mail thousands of former students letters written by their past selves

The Kosher Gourmet by Sharon Thompson Anyone can make a salad, you say. But can they make a great salad? (SECRETS, TESTED TECHNIQUES + 4 RECIPES, INCLUDING DRESSINGS)

April 2, 2014

Paul Greenberg: Death and joy in the spring

Dan Barry: Should South Carolina Jews be forced to maintain this chimney built by Germans serving the Nazis?

Mayra Bitsko: Save me! An alien took over my child's personality

Frank Clayton: Get happy: 20 scientifically proven happiness activities

Susan Scutti: It's Genetic! Obesity and the 'Carb Breakdown' Gene

Lecia Bushak: Why Hand Sanitizer May Actually Harm Your Health

Stacy Rapacon: Great Funds You Can Own for $500 or Less

Cameron Huddleston: 7 Ways to Save on Home Decor

The Kosher Gourmet by Steve Petusevsky Exploring ingredients as edible-stuffed containers (TWO RECIPES + TIPS & TECHINQUES)

Jewish World Review March 11, 2011 / 5 Adar II, 5771

Uncommon Culture

By Greg Crosby

http://www.JewishWorldReview.com | Seems the older I get the more I am aware of our increasingly fragmented culture. Once upon a time everyone you spoke with knew the latest hit song, watched the same television shows and movies, and had the same frame of references. Now we have become so divided as a people that we don't even honor the same G0d anymore (if we honor a G0d at all). We used to all agree on what constituted good values, what was right and wrong. We all understood that The Ten Commandments was the bulwark of decency in our society. We can't even agree on that anymore.

Our country's motto, e pluribus unum (from many, to one) has been turned on its head thanks to multiculturalism. We are no longer one united people; we are many groups of people who just happen to be living in the same place. It used to be desirable and honorable for an immigrant coming to America to assimilate into society, today it is considered insensitive to expect someone coming from another country to meld into our culture. No longer a melting pot, we have become an international food court.

Along with multiculturalism, the idea of egalitarianism is routinely taught in our public schools today. That is the idea that America is no better than any other country in the world. All cultures are equally wonderful. When President Obama was asked if he believes in American exceptionalism he said yes, but he was sure that the British and the Belgians also believed in their countries' exceptionalism. He didn't want to come right out and say that America was the best. Why not? I don't know about you, but I want my president to be a strong champion of American ideals and values. Unapologetically patriotic.

Abraham Lincoln had a strong faith in America; in his second message to Congress he coined the phrase, "the last best hope of earth." President Reagan quoted that line many times when speaking of our country. President Kennedy said Americans were "the watchmen on the walls of freedom." He echoed President George Washington, who thought the American people had been given the unique opportunity to tend "the sacred fire of liberty."

The proliferation of multicultural and egalitarian thought in our society is not the only reason we are experiencing a fragmented culture. The famous term, "generation gap" first heard in the 1960's, is growing wider all the time. People in their early twenties have less in common with people in their early forties and fifties than they had in generations past. We literally speak a different language. The explosion of new electronic technology is part of it, but so is fashion.

It is my contention that fashion has contributed to the break down of the common culture as much or maybe more than any other single factor. It may be difficult for us to grasp what life was like before fashion began, but there was a time when fashion was not as important as it is now. Today's young people have new things exposed to them on an ongoing basis, cultural changes happen practically every week, or so it seems.

With each succeeding generation a new culture comes about to make the old one obsolete and old-fashioned. It wasn't always this way. There once was a time that young people actually dressed the same way that older people did, they listened to the same music, they spoke using the same words and phrases, and they had the same virtues. Young and old alike valued the same things. But you'd have to go back more than 100 years, well before the industrial revolution, to live in a time totally devoid of fashion in everyday life.

Everything is subject to fashion now, everything. Beyond clothing, hairstyles, and other aspects of personal grooming, automobiles, electronic gadgets, music, movies, food, even speech, are all driven by fashion trends. It goes back to the cockeyed idea that change is always better. It doesn't matter what the change is, as long as it is different from what was. I never went along with this thinking. To me a change must be for the better, or else I'll keep what I have, thank you.

This is why I listen to classical music. This is why I dress in well tailored clothes when going out. This is why I watch old movies. The new stuff, the fashionable stuff just isn't any better. Matter of fact, its worse. But this is what is happening with lots of people in our culture, they are finding their own things, because there is no more common threads among us as there once were.

I don't know how a country can exist without a common culture to hold it together. We are what we are because of the people who founded this nation. Those people had a common link, something that does not exist here anymore. One thing is for sure, what made America what it was is disappearing fast. America is changing. Will the change will be for the better? From what I've seen so far, my guess is not at all. Not even close.

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