In this issue

Jonathan Tobin: Defending the Right to a Jewish State

Heather Hale: Compliment your kids without giving them big heads

Megan Shauri: 10 ways you are ruining your own happiness

Carolyn Bigda: 8 Best Dividend Stocks for 2015

Kiplinger's Personal Finance editors: 7 Things You Didn't Know About Paying Off Student Loans

Samantha Olson: The Crucial Mistake 55% Of Parents Are Making At Their Baby's Bedtime

Densie Well, Ph.D., R.D. Open your eyes to yellow vegetables

The Kosher Gourmet by Megan Gordon With its colorful cache of purples and oranges and reds, COLLARD GREEN SLAW is a marvelous mood booster --- not to mention just downright delish
April 18, 2014

Rabbi Yonason Goldson: Clarifying one of the greatest philosophical conundrums in theology

Caroline B. Glick: The disappearance of US will

Megan Wallgren: 10 things I've learned from my teenagers

Lizette Borreli: Green Tea Boosts Brain Power, May Help Treat Dementia

John Ericson: Trying hard to be 'positive' but never succeeding? Blame Your Brain

The Kosher Gourmet by Julie Rothman Almondy, flourless torta del re (Italian king's cake), has royal roots, is simple to make, . . . but devour it because it's simply delicious

April 14, 2014

Rabbi Dr Naftali Brawer: Passover frees us from the tyranny of time

Greg Crosby: Passing Over Religion

Eric Schulzke: First degree: How America really recovered from a murder epidemic

Georgia Lee: When love is not enough: Teaching your kids about the realities of adult relationships

Cameron Huddleston: Freebies for Your Lawn and Garden

Gordon Pape: How you can tell if your financial adviser is setting you up for potential ruin

Dana Dovey: Up to 500,000 people die each year from hepatitis C-related liver disease. New Treatment Has Over 90% Success Rate

Justin Caba: Eating Watermelon Can Help Control High Blood Pressure

The Kosher Gourmet by Joshua E. London and Lou Marmon Don't dare pass over these Pesach picks for Manischewitz!

April 11, 2014

Rabbi Hillel Goldberg: Silence is much more than golden

Caroline B. Glick: Forgetting freedom at Passover

Susan Swann: How to value a child for who he is, not just what he does

Cameron Huddleston: 7 Financial Tasks You Should Tackle Right Now

Sandra Block and Lisa Gerstner: How to Profit From Your Passion

Susan Scutti: A Simple Blood Test Might Soon Diagnose Cancer

Chris Weller: Have A Slow Metabolism? Let Science Speed It Up For You

The Kosher Gourmet by Diane Rossen Worthington Whitefish Terrine: A French take on gefilte fish

April 9, 2014

Jonathan Tobin: Why Did Kerry Lie About Israeli Blame?

Samuel G. Freedman: A resolution 70 years later for a father's unsettling legacy of ashes from Dachau

Jessica Ivins: A resolution 70 years later for a father's unsettling legacy of ashes from Dachau

Kim Giles: Asking for help is not weakness

Kathy Kristof and Barbara Hoch Marcus: 7 Great Growth Israeli Stocks

Matthew Mientka: How Beans, Peas, And Chickpeas Cleanse Bad Cholesterol and Lowers Risk of Heart Disease

Sabrina Bachai: 5 At-Home Treatments For Headaches

The Kosher Gourmet by Daniel Neman Have yourself a matzo ball: The secrets bubby never told you and recipes she could have never imagined

April 8, 2014

Lori Nawyn: At Your Wit's End and Back: Finding Peace

Susan B. Garland and Rachel L. Sheedy: Strategies Married Couples Can Use to Boost Benefits

David Muhlbaum: Smart Tax Deductions Non-Itemizers Can Claim

Jill Weisenberger, M.S., R.D.N., C.D.E : Before You Lose Your Mental Edge

Dana Dovey: Coffee Drinkers Rejoice! Your Cup Of Joe Can Prevent Death From Liver Disease

Chris Weller: Electric 'Thinking Cap' Puts Your Brain Power Into High Gear

The Kosher Gourmet by Marlene Parrish A gift of hazelnuts keeps giving --- for a variety of nutty recipes: Entree, side, soup, dessert

April 4, 2014

Rabbi David Gutterman: The Word for Nothing Means Everything

Charles Krauthammer: Kerry's folly, Chapter 3

Amy Peterson: A life of love: How to build lasting relationships with your children

John Ericson: Older Women: Save Your Heart, Prevent Stroke Don't Drink Diet

John Ericson: Why 50 million Americans will still have spring allergies after taking meds

Cameron Huddleston: Best and Worst Buys of April 2014

Stacy Rapacon: Great Mutual Funds for Young Investors

Sarah Boesveld: Teacher keeps promise to mail thousands of former students letters written by their past selves

The Kosher Gourmet by Sharon Thompson Anyone can make a salad, you say. But can they make a great salad? (SECRETS, TESTED TECHNIQUES + 4 RECIPES, INCLUDING DRESSINGS)

April 2, 2014

Paul Greenberg: Death and joy in the spring

Dan Barry: Should South Carolina Jews be forced to maintain this chimney built by Germans serving the Nazis?

Mayra Bitsko: Save me! An alien took over my child's personality

Frank Clayton: Get happy: 20 scientifically proven happiness activities

Susan Scutti: It's Genetic! Obesity and the 'Carb Breakdown' Gene

Lecia Bushak: Why Hand Sanitizer May Actually Harm Your Health

Stacy Rapacon: Great Funds You Can Own for $500 or Less

Cameron Huddleston: 7 Ways to Save on Home Decor

The Kosher Gourmet by Steve Petusevsky Exploring ingredients as edible-stuffed containers (TWO RECIPES + TIPS & TECHINQUES)

Jewish World Review December 19, 2013 / 16 Teves, 5774

Fact checking feminism

By Cathy Young

http://www.JewishWorldReview.com | Half a century into the feminist revolution, have its children won equality? Depends on how you measure it.

A survey by the Pew Research Center suggests that while some discrimination persists, many people may have an inflated idea of its scope — and that lingering gender disparities are far more likely to result from personal choices and family roles. Yet studies also show that while men's and women's life preferences are not identical, they transcend stereotypes for both sexes, — and both need better opportunities for work-family balance.

Findings from the Pew survey of more than 2,000 Americans is supplemented by an analysis of Census Bureau data on earnings. In 2012, hourly earnings for women 25 to 34 were 93 percent of their male counterparts. (For all women, the figure is 84 percent — up from 64 percent in 1980.)

This is not lower pay for the same work; much of the gap is due to differences in occupation and experience. More than a quarter of women who have kids say they have quit their job at some point to care for a child or another family member, compared with just 1 in 10 men. Half of working mothers, but only 16 percent of working fathers, say being a parent has made it harder to advance in their careers.

What about sex discrimination? More than half of all Americans (55 percent) told Pew they think women are generally paid less than men for the same work; 46 percent say men are favored in getting top-level jobs. But is this belief based on personal knowledge or media coverage?

Perhaps the latter. According to the survey, released last week, only about 10 percent think women are treated unfairly in pay and opportunities for promotion at their workplaces, while about three-quarters (men and women alike) say women are paid and promoted equally. Fewer than 1 in five women reports experiencing sex discrimination on the job (as do 1 in 10 men), and just 10 percent of women say discrimination has negatively affected their careers.

Does this mean that, as many conservatives argue, perceived inequalities between the sexes are natural and should be left alone? Not necessarily. It's not easy to separate the effects of society and culture from the effects of biology in shaping personal choices and family arrangements — and those roles have already undergone a vast evolution. (According to the Pew Research Center's "Modern Parenthood" report, released in March, fathers' time spent on child care has tripled since 1965.)

Today, there is still more pressure on women to be caregivers and, especially, on men to be breadwinners. Even among young Americans, a 2011 Pew poll showed, being able to financially support a family is regarded as far more important for a married man than a married woman.

While polls consistently find that mothers with young children are far less likely than fathers to regard full-time work as the best situation, a significant proportion of fathers — about 1 in four — now say they prefer to work part time or stay home. And, in the "Modern Parenthood" study, working dads were half as likely as working moms (23 percent vs. 46 percent) to feel they spent enough time with their children.

In the new Pew poll, two-thirds of all Americans and three-quarters of women born after 1980 support continued change to achieve equality in the workplace. Perhaps focusing on equality in the home would be a good place to start — including more support from women, as well as from society at large, for men's role as fathers and more flexible work-family options for men.


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© 2013, Cathy Young. This originally appeared in Newsday.