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February 10, 2012
Lisa M. Krieger: Man with defibrillator demands access to his own heart's information
David G. Savage: Why activists may not be in a hurry to have High Court rule on alternative marriage
February 9, 2012
Laura McMullen: 10 Least Expensive Public Schools for Out-of-State Students
Kimberly Palmer: How to actually enjoy -- relaxing, financially -- your vacation
February 8, 2012
Warren Richey: Why momentous Prop. 8 ruling might not satisfy gay-rights groups
Menachem Wecker: Though Controversial, LL.M.'s Can Lead to Specialized Legal Jobs
The Kosher Gourmet byDana Velden: Going to the bother of making soup? You know it better be good. This CREAM OF TOMATO SOUP certainly is! And it's a cinch to make, too (Includes techinques and serving secrets)
February 7, 2012
Frank J. Gaffney, Jr.: Caught off-guard? President's Super Bowl interview with Matt Lauer gives those who need a reason not to vote for him, a darn good one
Suzanne Bohan: Leaping lizards! Tiny reptiles advancing robot design
February 6, 2012
Jonathan Tobin: Iran Threatens Israel With Destruction, But the New York Times Doesn't Hear It
Jeffrey Fleishman: In newly democratic Egypt, tens of democracy activists jailed, to stand trial; their groups are 'threatening the stability of the homeland'
Julie Deardorff : Researchers say antioxidants may not be that effective and could do more harm than good
Mark Clayton: How did Anonymous hackers eavesdrop on FBI and Scotland Yard?
February 3, 2012
Edmund Sanders : Israeli official says Iran is creating missile that could reach East Coast of US
Victoria Kim: Immigrant-smuggling ring used black drivers to avoid racial profiling
February 2, 2012
Jim Carney: Wrong number call may have saved her life
Reza Kahlili : Ex-CIA spy in Iran's Revolutionary Guard: What Obama doesn't grasp about striking deals with Tehran
Tina Susman: For woodchuck rescuer, every day is Groundhog Day
February 1, 2012
Brian Bennett: US officials see increasing threat of domestic attack from Iran
Emily Brandon: How to Take Advantage of New 401(k) Fee Disclosures
January 31, 2012
January 30, 2012
Paul Richter and Ramin Mostaghim: Misreading Teheran's limits -- deadly and economically devastating as they may be -- is a risk administration, Europe seem willing to take
Suzanne Bohan: Warning: Nap-deprived tots missing more than sleep, study finds
Meg Handley: Banks Revamping Rewards Programs to Woo Customers
January 27, 2012
Caroline B. Glick: Obama: Of course I intend to prevent a nuclear holocaust . . . in a few months
Yochonon Donn: In liberal New York City, fervently-Orthodox Jews may soon be getting a district to call their own
Jeannine Stein: An inflated ego and thinking you're 'all that' doesn't just make others sick of you, it can make you ill
Katy Hopkins: New budget rules may affect how much money you get for college
January 26, 2012
Ed Koch: To the New York Times, calling for the murder of Jews by those capable of having their incitement taken seriously isn't news
Jeannine Stein: Mental illness struck one in five U.S. adults in 2010: Report
January 25, 2012
Richard Simon: House passes two bills endorsing the use of religious symbols at military memorials
Fred Weir: Putin: Multiethnic Russia cannot survive as a US-style 'melting pot'; must find its own way
Susan Johnston: 5 Sneaky Coupon Strategies Consumers Should Watch Out For
January 24, 2012
Carol Clark: The price of your soul: How your brain decides whether to 'sell out'
Caroline B. Glick: America lost most in 'Arab Spring'. Sadly, many voters still don't grasp the extent
Warren Richey: Drug criminal scores win in GPS ruling from conservative-leaning high court
Erika Bolstad: Black conservatives gather to talk about gaining strength
January 23, 2012
Melissa Dribben: Jewish voters to play a key role in Florida's Republican primary
Jordan Rau: In quest to grow, Catholic hospital system will announce this morning its break from church
Ali Safi: U.S. envoy gives Taliban terms for peace talks
January 19, 2012
January 18, 2012
January 17, 2012
Frank J. Gaffney Jr.: No-kidding red lines: U.S. response to an Iranian nuke may be bluster, but Israel's won't be
David G. Savage: They sued their principals after slandering them online --- now the cases are headed to the Supreme Court
David Francis: Where to Invest in 2012: With stocks expected to rebound, opportunity abounds for investors
January 13, 2012
Ben Lynfield: Israeli lawmakers move to annex Jewish Judea, one museum at a time
Alexia Elejalde-Ruiz: Thriving through touch: Gentle massage helps older people with low mobility improve in mind and body
January 12, 2012
Warren Richey: Landmark Supreme Court ruling a 'resounding win' for religious groups
Warren Richey: Supreme Court says no to new rule on eyewitness testimony
John Fauber : Statins found to raise diabetes risk in postmenopausal women
Katy Hopkins : Consider This Before You Pay for an Online Degree
The Kosher Gourmet by Joseph Erdos: This mushroom and barley soup has an intense -- almost nutty -- flavor that mixes robust with Middle East. It has creaminess without cream
January 11, 2012
Shari Roan: Millions of atrial fibrillation sufferers at risk for devastating, but preventable, stroke
Tom Hussain: Pakistan -- recipient of more than $21 billion in civilian and military aid -- speeds pursuit of Iranian pipeline, defying US
David G. Savage: High court signals it won't be loosening TV's 'indecency' rules
Stephen Ceasar: Oklahoma's Islamic law amendment can't go into effect, court rules
January 10, 2012
Reza Kahlili: From an ex-CIA spy: US must exploit new split in Iran's Revolutionary Guard
Karen Kaplan: Study: Nicotine replacement products ineffective when used in real-life situations
January 9, 2012
Michael Doyle: Put through legal hell over dream home, couple fought back hard --- all the way to Supreme Court
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Jewish World Review
The Power of Just, Part II
By Rabbi Zelig Pliskin
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"The quality of your life is the quality of your on-going self-talk!"Most people unconsciously engage in internal self-talk, and in this series, best-selling author Rabbi Zelig Pliskin guides the reader to achieve conscious awareness of meandering mental chatter and to transform it into a steady stream of purposeful thought.
Previously, we discussed some phrases that will overcome distress, accomplish despite difficulties, and experience more joy. We listed them. Now, we'll elaborate.
"Just apologize." Sincerely apologizing is the best way to overcome
the resentment and negative feelings of someone who is angry
with you. However, at times it can be very difficult to apologize.
When you tell yourself, "Just apologize," it can become easier.
If you really did something wrong, you have an obligation to
apologize. At times, it's wisest to apologize even if you aren't really
at fault. Your apology can create harmony. Have the strength and
courage to "just apologize." Your sincere apology will totally calm
some people. Even if you need to apologize a number of times and
find the right things to say each time, your initial apology is still the
first step forward.
"Just ask." You might find it difficult to ask someone a question
or to ask someone to help you out. Telling yourself, "Just ask," might
make it easier. Before saying these two words, you might have been
debating whether or not to ask. Even though you know you have a
right to ask and that it will be beneficial to ask, you feel a bit uncomfortable.
As you say to yourself, "Just ask," you might just go ahead
and actually ask. In most situations you will find that asking is much
easier than you had expected.
"Just be." In some situations you might be trying too hard to
impress others. Or you might be overly concerned with how other
people see you and what they think about you. You might be causing
yourself anxiety and nervousness about how to act and how to
project yourself. "Just be" could be the best advice for you at these
moments. Don't try so hard. Don't be overly concerned. "Just be"
implies that you will just be your real and authentic self. Taking off
the unnecessary pressure will enable you to be your best without
worrying about it.
"Just bliss." When you say, "Just bliss," to yourself, you might
remember how you felt when you experienced blissful feelings in
the past. Your mind will access blissful times and moments from
your life. Or you might create blissful feelings now, without recalling
any specific incidents of being blissful.
As long as you've actually experienced bliss at any time and in
any context, right now you might be able to create blissful feelings.
You might find that saying these words only a few times won't
change your feelings. But if you close your eyes and calmly repeat,
"Just bliss," many times, you might be able to create these feelings.
This is especially beneficial before praying. When you allow yourself
to experience bliss before communicating with the Almighty, it will
greatly add to your spiritual experiences.
"Just breathe." You are always breathing throughout the day.
Sometimes you are not aware of your breathing. You aren't thinking
about it and breathing is not on your conscious mind. But awareness
of your breathing enables you to feel a greater amount of gratitude
to the Creator for His benevolence and kindness in giving you an
abundance of oxygen to keep you alive and well.
Telling yourself, "Just breathe," can be especially helpful when
you are anxious or angry. Breathing slowly and deeply melts anxiety
and anger. First of all, by focusing on your breathing instead of on
the cause of your anxiety or anger, you are not adding to the distressing
feelings. Your mind and body work together. So when you
consciously breathe slowly and deeply, your brain accesses a calmer
state of mind. This also enables you to think with greater clarity.
"Just breathe" can be good advice to calm your nerves right before
you take a test. Your memory will function at a higher level.
More tomorrow
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