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Feb. 8, 2013

Rabbi Berel Wein: Lofty ideals must be followed with grounded applications

Clifford D. May: Letter from the West Bank
Steve Rothaus: Judge OKs plan for gay man, lesbian couple to be on girl's birth certificate
Gloria Goodale: States consider drone bans: Overreaction or crucial for privacy rights?
Environmental Nutrition Editors: Don't buy the aloe vera juice hype
Michael Craig Miller, M.D.: Harvard Experts: Regular exercise pumps up memory, too
Erik Lacitis: Vanity plates: Some take too much license
The Kosher Gourmet by Susie Middleton: Broccoflower, Carrot and Leek Ragout with Thyme, Orange and Tapenade is a delightful and satisfying melange of veggies, herbs and aromatics
Feb. 6, 2013

Nara Schoenberg: The other in-law problem

Frank J. Gaffney Jr. : A see-no-jihadist for the CIA
Kristen Chick: Ahmadinejad visits Cairo: How sect tempers Islamist ties between Egypt, Iran
Roger Simon: Ed Koch's lucky corner
Heron Marquez Estrada: Robot-building sports on a roll
Patrick G. Dean, M.D.: Mayo Clinic Medical Edge: How to restore body's ability to secrete insulin
Sharon Palmer, R.D.: 3 prostate-protecting diet tips
The Kosher Gourmet by Emma Christensen 7 principles for to help you make the best soup ever in a slow cooker
Feb. 4, 2013

Jonathan Tobin: Can Jewish Groups Speak Out on Hagel?

David Wren: Findings of government study, released 3 days before Newtown shooting, at odds with gun-control crusaders
Kristen Chick: Tahrir becomes terrifying, tainted
Curtis Tate and Greg Gordon: US keeps building new highways while letting old ones crumble
David G. Savage: Supreme Court to hear case on arrests, DNA
Harvard Health Letters: Neck and shoulder pain? Know what it means and what to do
Andrea N. Giancoli, M.P.H., R.D.: Eat your way to preventing age-related muscle loss
The Kosher Gourmet by Diane Rossen Worthington Baked Pears in Red Wine and Port Wine Glaze: A festive winter dessert
Feb. 1, 2013

Rabbi Dr. Tzvi Hersh Weinreb: Redemption

Clifford D. May Home, bloody, home
Christa Case Bryant andNicholas Blanford Why despite Syria's allies warning of retaliation for Israeli airstrikes, the threats are likely hollow
Rick Armon, Ed Meyer and Phil Trexler Ex-police captain cleared by DNA test is freed after nearly 15 years
Harvard Health Letters: Could it by your thyroid?
Sharon Palmer, R.D.: When 'healthy food' isn't
Sue Zeidler: Coke ad racist? Arab-American groups want to yank Super Bowl ad (INCLUDES VIDEO)
The Kosher Gourmet by Nealey Dozier The secret of this soup is the garnish
January 30, 2013

Allan Chernoff: Celebrating 'Back from the Dead Day'

America isn't a religious country? Don't tell Superbowl fans!
Mark Clayton Cybercrime takedown!
Germany remembers Hitler rise to power
Israel salutes U. N. --- with the one finger salute
Sharon Palmer, R.D.: Get cookin' with heart-healthy fats
Ballot riles Guinness World Records
The Kosher Gourmet by Elizabeth Passarella Potato, Squash and Goat Cheese Gratin
January 28, 2013

Nancy Youssef: And Democracy for all? Two years on, Egypt remains in state of chaos

Fred Weir: Putin: West is fomenting jihadi 'blowback'
Meredith Cohn: Implantable pain disk may help those with cancer
Michael Craig Miller, M.D. : Ask the Harvard Experts: Are there drugs to help control binge eating?
David Ovalle Use of controversial 'brain mapping' technology stymied
Jane Stancill: Professor's logic class has 180,000 friends
David Clark Scott Lego Racism?
The Kosher Gourmet by Mario Batali The celebrated chef introduces us to PANZEROTTI PUGLIESI, cheese-stuffed pastry from Italy's south


Jewish World Review Nov. 20, 2012/ 6 Kislev, 5773

My Friend Mary

By Alan Douglas


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http://www.JewishWorldReview.com | It has been four months since my last commentary. I'm not sure if anyone other than Luther K. Lunchbucket, Dr. Dick, The Crusader for Justice, and my other correspondents noticed.

My "revealing mirth" or "appalling drivel", depending upon which of my readers you consult, has returned. The election is over, the people have spoken, and we have elected one of the Harvard men as President again. But that's not why I am back. I am writing once again because I had lunch with my friend, Mary. After lunch with Mary, I came to believe that my life, and all of our lives, hangs in the balance.

The Talmud tells us that there are thirty-six, righteous people on earth, upon whose existence we all depend. The thirty-six, are hidden among the rest. That's right, in each generation or so there are sleeper saints. Without these saintlike human beings the scales would tip in judgment against us.

These thirty-six good people save our species from divine destruction. This is must be quite an honor for these folks, but also; a crushing burden.

From an early age, it was obvious that I was not one of the 36. Every so often, I look around and notice a person in the crowd that looks like Brad Pitt. Or someone driving a car that looks just like Tom Selleck, or some other celebrity. And just as I see celebrities everywhere, I occasionally believe that I get a glimpse of one of the thirty-six hidden saints on earth.

My friend Mary might be one of the thirty-six. She is kind, a wonderful wife, mother, sister, child, and she performs acts of kindness. She makes an effort to do the right thing, to be reverent, and she laughs. As an operating room nurse and a volunteer on missionary trips Mary sees so much that is ugly and nasty in the world, but she can still laugh. She tripped over a misplaced cord in the operating room and was seriously injured. Still, Mary laughed, and through treatments, and procedures, and surgery she was determined to keep working and doing charity work.

But even an earthly saint these days has to deal with the Legal Department and the Human Resources executives. So, Mary found herself facing the quantifying, number crunching process called Workers Compensation that deals with injuries suffered on the job. It was agreed that Mary could do something, despite her disability. But what?

Mary found work at new health clinic being started in her area to help low-income citizens. Not as much money, but worthwhile, and it utilized her years of experience. Mary's employer said they would "assist her in her job search" and they found some jobs for her. It was one of these opportunities that got Mary in trouble. They had Mary apply for a job as a loan specialist at a payday loan company that specialized in offer easy terms, and astronomical interest rates. They were pleasantly surprised to inform Mary that she had been selected for an interview with the payday loan company.

Mary's lawyer warned her that unless Mary went to the interview and explored this opportunity that she would jeopardize her eligibility for Workers Compensation.

Mary went, and being the bright, wonderful person that she is, the payday loan people said they would like to hire her. Mary told them she would accept, but that because of her religious beliefs, she was compelled to give those receiving loans most of her salary to defray the large amount of interest. They wouldn't hire her and the Human Resources and Legal Departments cried, "Foul!"

There are rules in Jewish, Christian, and Muslim and other religions prohibiting usury and as Mishle Yehoshua said, "There are a thousand ways to do injustice without breaking a single law." The payday loan business exists for a reason, and it is legal. Should Mary have to violate her religious beliefs to work there?

This is a more than a clever legal tactic by an attorney; it is an example of gaming the system to the point where the system is wrong. Mary is willing to live with the consequences of her act, and laugh about it.

Me, well, we've already established that I'm not that saintly. Knowing that there are people out there like Mary, who each day live according to their conscience and religious beliefs, with grace and humor, makes me truly believe there are also thirty-five other people like her out there in the world. I may not qualify to be one of them, but at least I can still point them out to you.

As our lunch ended, Mary said, "When are you going to start writing your column again? I miss them". That was enough for me.

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JWR contributor, Alan Douglas, an author, media executive, award winning screenwriter (not produced), and attorney, lives con brio- except when he is grumpy.


Previously:

Jeopardy, American Violence, and the Radio City Rockettes
What Your Children and Grandchildren Are Doing
Family Dinner
Library Idol Worship
Holocaust Survivor, Museum Founder, Fired by Phone
Florida Attorneys to Shake Hands with the Devil
Holiday for the fallen and failed
Black History Month, Politics, and the Ice Cream Scoop
Friends With Benefits
Pilgrimages
Moneyball, Economics and Medicine
Justice, My Aunt, and Gretsky
Hurricanes, Earthquakes and Home Depot
Glenn Beck, Norway, Hitler and Me
D Day: The Ripple Effect
What are you paying for?
Law, Etiquette and 5 Rules
Inspiration
Confusing Kindness with Weakness
When Katie Couric Got Pulled Off the Air…
Don't second guess the deceased
Pain and legacies
Being in the No
The Sixth Sense
Dogs in Danger
Facebook, LinkedIn and the Zuckerberg Exit
Simon Bolivar Would Tell Glenn Beck to, ‘Put A Sock In It’
Children and Grandchildren
Swearing, Shoes, and Mark Twain
How my poor man's Porsche, Virgil, prepared me for life
Leases and Landing Gear
The Oscars, Obama and Job Creation
Damages and Penalties
Obstacles with Impossibilities
Making Others Feel Bad
Referrals and Recommendations
Woodpecker Frustration
Phrases, Not Resolutions
I Was A Crime Fighter and Super Hero
Comforting with Sympathizing
Nautical Worry Killers
Can You Keep A Secret?
Holiday Card Hazards
Gifts
Sharing, Transparency and Dumping
Red Alert
Readers Respond Regarding Rabbi
Readers: I Need Your Help with my Rabbi
Humphrey Bogart and P. T. Barnum on Fighting with Family and Friends
Columbus, Honors and Hound Dogs
The Free Lunch
When your child suffers
Conversational Transmitted Diseases
Conservative, Liberal or American
Paris, Antarctica and Shopping
Personal Protection
Dispute Resolution
Jumped or Pushed?
Friends and Acquaintances
Revenge and Vindication

© 2010 Alan Douglas

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