In this issue

Jonathan Tobin: Defending the Right to a Jewish State

Heather Hale: Compliment your kids without giving them big heads

Megan Shauri: 10 ways you are ruining your own happiness

Carolyn Bigda: 8 Best Dividend Stocks for 2015

Kiplinger's Personal Finance editors: 7 Things You Didn't Know About Paying Off Student Loans

Samantha Olson: The Crucial Mistake 55% Of Parents Are Making At Their Baby's Bedtime

Densie Well, Ph.D., R.D. Open your eyes to yellow vegetables

The Kosher Gourmet by Megan Gordon With its colorful cache of purples and oranges and reds, COLLARD GREEN SLAW is a marvelous mood booster --- not to mention just downright delish
April 18, 2014

Rabbi Yonason Goldson: Clarifying one of the greatest philosophical conundrums in theology

Caroline B. Glick: The disappearance of US will

Megan Wallgren: 10 things I've learned from my teenagers

Lizette Borreli: Green Tea Boosts Brain Power, May Help Treat Dementia

John Ericson: Trying hard to be 'positive' but never succeeding? Blame Your Brain

The Kosher Gourmet by Julie Rothman Almondy, flourless torta del re (Italian king's cake), has royal roots, is simple to make, . . . but devour it because it's simply delicious

April 14, 2014

Rabbi Dr Naftali Brawer: Passover frees us from the tyranny of time

Greg Crosby: Passing Over Religion

Eric Schulzke: First degree: How America really recovered from a murder epidemic

Georgia Lee: When love is not enough: Teaching your kids about the realities of adult relationships

Cameron Huddleston: Freebies for Your Lawn and Garden

Gordon Pape: How you can tell if your financial adviser is setting you up for potential ruin

Dana Dovey: Up to 500,000 people die each year from hepatitis C-related liver disease. New Treatment Has Over 90% Success Rate

Justin Caba: Eating Watermelon Can Help Control High Blood Pressure

The Kosher Gourmet by Joshua E. London and Lou Marmon Don't dare pass over these Pesach picks for Manischewitz!

April 11, 2014

Rabbi Hillel Goldberg: Silence is much more than golden

Caroline B. Glick: Forgetting freedom at Passover

Susan Swann: How to value a child for who he is, not just what he does

Cameron Huddleston: 7 Financial Tasks You Should Tackle Right Now

Sandra Block and Lisa Gerstner: How to Profit From Your Passion

Susan Scutti: A Simple Blood Test Might Soon Diagnose Cancer

Chris Weller: Have A Slow Metabolism? Let Science Speed It Up For You

The Kosher Gourmet by Diane Rossen Worthington Whitefish Terrine: A French take on gefilte fish

April 9, 2014

Jonathan Tobin: Why Did Kerry Lie About Israeli Blame?

Samuel G. Freedman: A resolution 70 years later for a father's unsettling legacy of ashes from Dachau

Jessica Ivins: A resolution 70 years later for a father's unsettling legacy of ashes from Dachau

Kim Giles: Asking for help is not weakness

Kathy Kristof and Barbara Hoch Marcus: 7 Great Growth Israeli Stocks

Matthew Mientka: How Beans, Peas, And Chickpeas Cleanse Bad Cholesterol and Lowers Risk of Heart Disease

Sabrina Bachai: 5 At-Home Treatments For Headaches

The Kosher Gourmet by Daniel Neman Have yourself a matzo ball: The secrets bubby never told you and recipes she could have never imagined

April 8, 2014

Lori Nawyn: At Your Wit's End and Back: Finding Peace

Susan B. Garland and Rachel L. Sheedy: Strategies Married Couples Can Use to Boost Benefits

David Muhlbaum: Smart Tax Deductions Non-Itemizers Can Claim

Jill Weisenberger, M.S., R.D.N., C.D.E : Before You Lose Your Mental Edge

Dana Dovey: Coffee Drinkers Rejoice! Your Cup Of Joe Can Prevent Death From Liver Disease

Chris Weller: Electric 'Thinking Cap' Puts Your Brain Power Into High Gear

The Kosher Gourmet by Marlene Parrish A gift of hazelnuts keeps giving --- for a variety of nutty recipes: Entree, side, soup, dessert

April 4, 2014

Rabbi David Gutterman: The Word for Nothing Means Everything

Charles Krauthammer: Kerry's folly, Chapter 3

Amy Peterson: A life of love: How to build lasting relationships with your children

John Ericson: Older Women: Save Your Heart, Prevent Stroke Don't Drink Diet

John Ericson: Why 50 million Americans will still have spring allergies after taking meds

Cameron Huddleston: Best and Worst Buys of April 2014

Stacy Rapacon: Great Mutual Funds for Young Investors

Sarah Boesveld: Teacher keeps promise to mail thousands of former students letters written by their past selves

The Kosher Gourmet by Sharon Thompson Anyone can make a salad, you say. But can they make a great salad? (SECRETS, TESTED TECHNIQUES + 4 RECIPES, INCLUDING DRESSINGS)

April 2, 2014

Paul Greenberg: Death and joy in the spring

Dan Barry: Should South Carolina Jews be forced to maintain this chimney built by Germans serving the Nazis?

Mayra Bitsko: Save me! An alien took over my child's personality

Frank Clayton: Get happy: 20 scientifically proven happiness activities

Susan Scutti: It's Genetic! Obesity and the 'Carb Breakdown' Gene

Lecia Bushak: Why Hand Sanitizer May Actually Harm Your Health

Stacy Rapacon: Great Funds You Can Own for $500 or Less

Cameron Huddleston: 7 Ways to Save on Home Decor

The Kosher Gourmet by Steve Petusevsky Exploring ingredients as edible-stuffed containers (TWO RECIPES + TIPS & TECHINQUES)

Jewish World Review

Joseph: The Tragedy of Being Truly Righteous

By Rabbi Nathan Lopes Cardozo

A penetrating analysis of the human condition proving yet again that there is no such thing as simple Bible stories. Will be particularly inspiring to those who take unpopular moral positions

http://www.JewishWorldReview.com | When looking into the lives of the Avos, the three forefathers of the people of Israel, it is remarkable that not one of them was officially called a tzaddik, a righteous man, by the Talmudic and Midrashic sages. Only Joseph, the son of Jacob, was officially given this title (Midrash Tanchuma 58:4). This is rather strange, since it cannot be denied that also Abraham, Isaac and Jacob were outstandingly pious people.

It may, however, be suggested that the reason for this special honor is because, paradoxically, Joseph did not appear to be a real tzaddik.

There can be little doubt that at the time of his reign over Egypt, Joseph must have been seen as a ruthless person who had little reluctance to make the lives of his fellow men unbearable, particularly those of his brothers, his father and the entire Egyptian population. (We should never overlook the fact that it is the Torah and its commentaries that offer the reader a huge advantage, telling him the "whole story" within a few chapters, so that he has no time to bear a grudge against Joseph before discovering his righteousness at the end of the story! This privilege, however, was not given to any of the actual people with whom Joseph spent a good part of his life.)

Joseph's life is the epitome of the complications of human existence in the extreme. It is a life in which human conditions are far from ideal. There are no black and white choices in which it is easy to take a stand and where the good guys and the bad ones are clearly identified. Every choice includes a complex mixture of good and bad. Even with best intentions one sometimes cannot help hurting those one really loves the most and doing favors to those who are corrupt.

Reading the story, one wonders what must have gone through Joseph's mind and heart when he took a hard stand on the people of Egypt by buying up everything that they owned till in the end he made the whole population enslaved to Pharaoh without any private possessions. The text also clearly indicates that he uprooted everybody from their home and that all of them became refugees in their own country (Genesis 47). This was nothing less than a population expulsion, one of the worst human experiences. Commentators explain that this was the only way he was able to save the country from even greater disasters and in fact the only way to revive the economy. Still, he must have been greatly disturbed to bring about such upheaval in the nation. Few must have understood what he did, and millions must have cursed him for making their lives miserable.

His behavior towards his father and his brothers surely must have given him sleepless nights, year after year. While ruling the land of Egypt, he never told his father that he was still alive. Joseph's own life must have been unbearable every time he thought of his suffering father. "How can I endure one more day knowing that my father is in constant anguish because of me?"

His awful, hard stand against his brothers when they came to Egypt to buy food, must have given him nightmares and depressions. "What will my brothers and all the servants in the palace think of me? No doubt in their eyes I must look like a cruel despot looking for sadistic ways to hurt people wherever possible. What are they thinking of me as I am imprisoning Shimon and forcing the brothers to bring Benjamin to Egypt?"

Still, as many commentators explain, he had no option but to do what he did. In fact it was his deep devotion and concern for them which were his motivation. (See, for example, Ramban (Nachmonides) and Rabbi Samson Raphael Hirsch.)

Surely he must have dreamed of the day when he could reveal to them that it was his deepest devotion to them that made him take these harsh steps.

But, as the Torah clearly reveals, even this Joseph was not granted. His father never knew what his real motivations were, and his brothers clearly showed after the death of their father that they suspected that Joseph would take revenge on them (Genesis 60:50). How painful it must have been for Joseph when he realized that even in his old age nobody would ever know what his real intentions had been! He was convinced that he would go to his grave seen by millions as a merciless leader.

(The fact that he saved the economy of the Egyptian people would not make much of a difference in the eyes of the millions who would never be able to understand why there was a need to achieve that goal through the harsh measurements he took. Their show of gratitude [47:25] may well have been the kind of forced courtesy often given to a dictator.)

How much more he must have had these tormenting thoughts when thinking of his brothers. Never would they know what motivated him and how hard he tried to minimize the pain he was forced to cause them!

(What a relief it would have been to him if he would have known that hundreds of years later the Torah and its commentators would reveal the whole story and prove his real righteous intentions!)

This indeed is the tragedy of nearly every tzaddik. The truly righteous are most of the time people who are not able to reveal their real intentions and righteousness. Often they have to work under the most agonizing circumstances, even hurting people when it is the only way to prevent an even greater tragedy. This is the reason why they cannot always be the "nice guys" and "good mannered" people. The truly righteous are people who hold to a higher purpose; they cannot allow themselves to sway with the winds. To them applies the saying that if you do not stand for anything you fall for everything. But to stand for something may quite well give one a bad name however noble one's intentions. One can only hope that perhaps one day people will discover what one really was all about and how painful it was to be a "hidden tzaddik". But, usually, there is little chance that such will come about. After all, who has the privilege like Joseph to have his or her real story written in an eternal book?

This is the reason why it was Joseph who was bestowed with the title of tzaddik. While it is true that his father, grandfather and great grandfather were great people, the sages realized that only Joseph had to do so much that he hated to do so as to be a real tzaddik. In fact, the Midrash makes it abundantly clear that it was his hard measurements that earned him the title tzaddik (Midrash Tanchuma ibid.). This is often the tragedy of the tzaddik. To be righteous with the full awareness that nobody will ever know the real story and to have one's deeds condemned is one of the most painful human experiences. Only the knowledge that the One Above knows the real story and the conviction that it is more important that others benefit from one's deeds than to be assured that others recognize one's real intentions gives the ultimate feeling of spiritual satisfaction for which the tzaddik strives.

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JWR contributor Rabbi Nathan Lopes Cardozo is a world-renowned lecturer and ambassador for Judaism, the Jewish people, the State of Israel and Sephardic Heritage. His latest book is "For the Love of Israel and the Jewish People".

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