In this issue

Jonathan Tobin: Defending the Right to a Jewish State

Heather Hale: Compliment your kids without giving them big heads

Megan Shauri: 10 ways you are ruining your own happiness

Carolyn Bigda: 8 Best Dividend Stocks for 2015

Kiplinger's Personal Finance editors: 7 Things You Didn't Know About Paying Off Student Loans

Samantha Olson: The Crucial Mistake 55% Of Parents Are Making At Their Baby's Bedtime

Densie Well, Ph.D., R.D. Open your eyes to yellow vegetables

The Kosher Gourmet by Megan Gordon With its colorful cache of purples and oranges and reds, COLLARD GREEN SLAW is a marvelous mood booster --- not to mention just downright delish
April 18, 2014

Rabbi Yonason Goldson: Clarifying one of the greatest philosophical conundrums in theology

Caroline B. Glick: The disappearance of US will

Megan Wallgren: 10 things I've learned from my teenagers

Lizette Borreli: Green Tea Boosts Brain Power, May Help Treat Dementia

John Ericson: Trying hard to be 'positive' but never succeeding? Blame Your Brain

The Kosher Gourmet by Julie Rothman Almondy, flourless torta del re (Italian king's cake), has royal roots, is simple to make, . . . but devour it because it's simply delicious

April 14, 2014

Rabbi Dr Naftali Brawer: Passover frees us from the tyranny of time

Greg Crosby: Passing Over Religion

Eric Schulzke: First degree: How America really recovered from a murder epidemic

Georgia Lee: When love is not enough: Teaching your kids about the realities of adult relationships

Cameron Huddleston: Freebies for Your Lawn and Garden

Gordon Pape: How you can tell if your financial adviser is setting you up for potential ruin

Dana Dovey: Up to 500,000 people die each year from hepatitis C-related liver disease. New Treatment Has Over 90% Success Rate

Justin Caba: Eating Watermelon Can Help Control High Blood Pressure

The Kosher Gourmet by Joshua E. London and Lou Marmon Don't dare pass over these Pesach picks for Manischewitz!

April 11, 2014

Rabbi Hillel Goldberg: Silence is much more than golden

Caroline B. Glick: Forgetting freedom at Passover

Susan Swann: How to value a child for who he is, not just what he does

Cameron Huddleston: 7 Financial Tasks You Should Tackle Right Now

Sandra Block and Lisa Gerstner: How to Profit From Your Passion

Susan Scutti: A Simple Blood Test Might Soon Diagnose Cancer

Chris Weller: Have A Slow Metabolism? Let Science Speed It Up For You

The Kosher Gourmet by Diane Rossen Worthington Whitefish Terrine: A French take on gefilte fish

April 9, 2014

Jonathan Tobin: Why Did Kerry Lie About Israeli Blame?

Samuel G. Freedman: A resolution 70 years later for a father's unsettling legacy of ashes from Dachau

Jessica Ivins: A resolution 70 years later for a father's unsettling legacy of ashes from Dachau

Kim Giles: Asking for help is not weakness

Kathy Kristof and Barbara Hoch Marcus: 7 Great Growth Israeli Stocks

Matthew Mientka: How Beans, Peas, And Chickpeas Cleanse Bad Cholesterol and Lowers Risk of Heart Disease

Sabrina Bachai: 5 At-Home Treatments For Headaches

The Kosher Gourmet by Daniel Neman Have yourself a matzo ball: The secrets bubby never told you and recipes she could have never imagined

April 8, 2014

Lori Nawyn: At Your Wit's End and Back: Finding Peace

Susan B. Garland and Rachel L. Sheedy: Strategies Married Couples Can Use to Boost Benefits

David Muhlbaum: Smart Tax Deductions Non-Itemizers Can Claim

Jill Weisenberger, M.S., R.D.N., C.D.E : Before You Lose Your Mental Edge

Dana Dovey: Coffee Drinkers Rejoice! Your Cup Of Joe Can Prevent Death From Liver Disease

Chris Weller: Electric 'Thinking Cap' Puts Your Brain Power Into High Gear

The Kosher Gourmet by Marlene Parrish A gift of hazelnuts keeps giving --- for a variety of nutty recipes: Entree, side, soup, dessert

April 4, 2014

Rabbi David Gutterman: The Word for Nothing Means Everything

Charles Krauthammer: Kerry's folly, Chapter 3

Amy Peterson: A life of love: How to build lasting relationships with your children

John Ericson: Older Women: Save Your Heart, Prevent Stroke Don't Drink Diet

John Ericson: Why 50 million Americans will still have spring allergies after taking meds

Cameron Huddleston: Best and Worst Buys of April 2014

Stacy Rapacon: Great Mutual Funds for Young Investors

Sarah Boesveld: Teacher keeps promise to mail thousands of former students letters written by their past selves

The Kosher Gourmet by Sharon Thompson Anyone can make a salad, you say. But can they make a great salad? (SECRETS, TESTED TECHNIQUES + 4 RECIPES, INCLUDING DRESSINGS)

April 2, 2014

Paul Greenberg: Death and joy in the spring

Dan Barry: Should South Carolina Jews be forced to maintain this chimney built by Germans serving the Nazis?

Mayra Bitsko: Save me! An alien took over my child's personality

Frank Clayton: Get happy: 20 scientifically proven happiness activities

Susan Scutti: It's Genetic! Obesity and the 'Carb Breakdown' Gene

Lecia Bushak: Why Hand Sanitizer May Actually Harm Your Health

Stacy Rapacon: Great Funds You Can Own for $500 or Less

Cameron Huddleston: 7 Ways to Save on Home Decor

The Kosher Gourmet by Steve Petusevsky Exploring ingredients as edible-stuffed containers (TWO RECIPES + TIPS & TECHINQUES)

Jewish World Review

Does Following a Methodology Make You Religious?

By Rabbi Benjamin Hecht

What believers of all faiths need to know when 'selling' our positions

JewishWorldReview.com | There is an interesting disconnect in our world today regarding religion.

To most people, religions are really seen as describing methodologies, ways by which individuals attempt to find spiritual expression. Abraham Maslow, the noted psychologist, described how human beings have a drive for what may be termed "spirituality" -- a certain existential -- perhaps, what we may also term transcendental -- state -- and religions, over the centuries, offered the means by which people could reach this psychological plateau. Being an adherent to a certain religion, as such, is simply seen, to most people, as a description of the way by which this individual achieves spirituality.

This is not, however, the way that religions -- even more so, traditional religious systems -- actually view themselves. At a religion's core is the presentation of truth and, most significantly, the definition of right and wrong. To a religion itself, while spirituality may be an outcome of adherence to the faith, that is still not what the essence of the faith is. Adherence demands the acceptance of a certain reality with the subsequent consequences -- and this is what really defines the consciousness of the truly devote adherent.

Herein lies the disconnect to which I refer. Individuals from both sides in addressing each other ignore this chasm of perspective and speak solely within their own terms, not addressing the other within the other's parameters of understanding. This makes discussions between the two groups most challenging as one speaks one way while the other speaks another way. How can we discuss any topic touching upon religion if we do not even recognize this rift in our ability to communicate?

Contemporary discussions regarding many ethical issues often reflect this problem. Believing that the issue of religion is simply one of methodology, many individuals, in discussing an ethical issue with devout followers, will still approach the matter viewing the other's commitment as simply a decision of methodology. The ethical issue is thus addressed without an honest and full recognition of the impact this devotion to a certain religious stand can have on the decision. What is lost is the context of the broader, theological background. The religious individual often did not adopt this specific ethical or moral stand through his/her own personal, decision making process but, rather, accepted this particular conclusion as part of the general acceptance of the faith. Any further discussion thus demands an understanding how this stand also connects with the primary and causal theological underpinnings of this person's religious grouping.

By extension, it may also be warranted to further consider how this religious group reaches such decisions in the first place. A specific ethical conclusion is but part of the larger system and this system cannot be ignored. This individual is not independently rendering this ethical decision but is abiding by it because it is the conclusion of his/her general and overall religious adherence. This general conclusion, in all its parts, may, as such, also have to be part of the discussion.

The challenge works the other way also. Oftentimes an adherent to a faith will simply respond to a question with a reference to the faith, with even an implied assumption that the questioner also must accept this reference with the same devotion.


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This may project this individual as an honest and true believer in this faith but it clearly prevents the conversation from developing any further. There is often not even an explanation -- let us say, such as "that pursuant to my belief, the Divine instructs as follows" -- but just a simple statement that throws the name of the deity into the conversation as a matter of fact, without the recognition that the very debate may be whether this is, in fact, the Divine direction. The results are discussions of proverbial "apples and oranges" as both sides avoid the broader necessity of extending the language of the dialogue to recognize the differing religious perspectives.

This is not to say that every social debate is thereby inherently stymied by the religious distinctions of its constituent groupings. The simple need is clearly for the recognition that the greater theological issue must also be considered within the context of any such discussion.

The further problem may be that we, in our society, are generally reluctant to bring religious faith into our discussions -- and, in some respects, for a very good reason. The value of freedom of religion impacts on us, in many ways, to refrain from such discussions as the results could be challenging. In a certain way, it is easier to accept the value of freedom of religion if we believe religious choices to be solely about methodology and not substantive issues. The fact is, though, that religious commitment does impact substantively and, as discussions regarding important societal issues are still most necessary, we have to be able to include religion in our discussions as well.

I have been contemplating this idea for some time now. Over and over again, I read about debates within our society that suffer from this problem, where underlying theological perspectives are effectively on the table but never honestly addressed -- or even mentioned.

Further investigating this matter is, as such, a direction in which I want to go in my next number of articles -- beginning, perhaps, in how I can incorporate freedom of religion into this dialogue. Then, perhaps, I could discuss the referencing of the Bible. Of course, I will be working within my own parameters as an Orthodox Jewish rabbi but this should also present a further call to others to respond from their variant, religious perspectives. Honest, constructive dialogue on so many of our societal issues could be the result.

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Rabbi Benjamin Hecht is the Founding Director of NISHMA, an international Torah research, resource and educational endeavour devoted to the fostering of individual inquiry and the critical investigation of contemporary issues. He also serves on the Rabbinical Advisory Board of Koshertube, as Rabbinic Advisor to Yad HaChazakah: the Jewish Disability Empowerment Center and has a regular monthly column in the Toronto-based Jewish Tribune. In addition to his rabbinical ordination, he holds degrees in law (Ll.B.), psychology (B.A.) and administration (M.B.A.).

© 2013, Rabbi Benjamin Hecht. This appeared on the Huffington Post