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Jonathan Tobin: Defending the Right to a Jewish State

Heather Hale: Compliment your kids without giving them big heads

Megan Shauri: 10 ways you are ruining your own happiness

Carolyn Bigda: 8 Best Dividend Stocks for 2015

Kiplinger's Personal Finance editors: 7 Things You Didn't Know About Paying Off Student Loans

Samantha Olson: The Crucial Mistake 55% Of Parents Are Making At Their Baby's Bedtime

Densie Well, Ph.D., R.D. Open your eyes to yellow vegetables

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Rabbi Yonason Goldson: Clarifying one of the greatest philosophical conundrums in theology

Caroline B. Glick: The disappearance of US will

Megan Wallgren: 10 things I've learned from my teenagers

Lizette Borreli: Green Tea Boosts Brain Power, May Help Treat Dementia

John Ericson: Trying hard to be 'positive' but never succeeding? Blame Your Brain

The Kosher Gourmet by Julie Rothman Almondy, flourless torta del re (Italian king's cake), has royal roots, is simple to make, . . . but devour it because it's simply delicious

April 14, 2014

Rabbi Dr Naftali Brawer: Passover frees us from the tyranny of time

Greg Crosby: Passing Over Religion

Eric Schulzke: First degree: How America really recovered from a murder epidemic

Georgia Lee: When love is not enough: Teaching your kids about the realities of adult relationships

Cameron Huddleston: Freebies for Your Lawn and Garden

Gordon Pape: How you can tell if your financial adviser is setting you up for potential ruin

Dana Dovey: Up to 500,000 people die each year from hepatitis C-related liver disease. New Treatment Has Over 90% Success Rate

Justin Caba: Eating Watermelon Can Help Control High Blood Pressure

The Kosher Gourmet by Joshua E. London and Lou Marmon Don't dare pass over these Pesach picks for Manischewitz!

April 11, 2014

Rabbi Hillel Goldberg: Silence is much more than golden

Caroline B. Glick: Forgetting freedom at Passover

Susan Swann: How to value a child for who he is, not just what he does

Cameron Huddleston: 7 Financial Tasks You Should Tackle Right Now

Sandra Block and Lisa Gerstner: How to Profit From Your Passion

Susan Scutti: A Simple Blood Test Might Soon Diagnose Cancer

Chris Weller: Have A Slow Metabolism? Let Science Speed It Up For You

The Kosher Gourmet by Diane Rossen Worthington Whitefish Terrine: A French take on gefilte fish

April 9, 2014

Jonathan Tobin: Why Did Kerry Lie About Israeli Blame?

Samuel G. Freedman: A resolution 70 years later for a father's unsettling legacy of ashes from Dachau

Jessica Ivins: A resolution 70 years later for a father's unsettling legacy of ashes from Dachau

Kim Giles: Asking for help is not weakness

Kathy Kristof and Barbara Hoch Marcus: 7 Great Growth Israeli Stocks

Matthew Mientka: How Beans, Peas, And Chickpeas Cleanse Bad Cholesterol and Lowers Risk of Heart Disease

Sabrina Bachai: 5 At-Home Treatments For Headaches

The Kosher Gourmet by Daniel Neman Have yourself a matzo ball: The secrets bubby never told you and recipes she could have never imagined

April 8, 2014

Lori Nawyn: At Your Wit's End and Back: Finding Peace

Susan B. Garland and Rachel L. Sheedy: Strategies Married Couples Can Use to Boost Benefits

David Muhlbaum: Smart Tax Deductions Non-Itemizers Can Claim

Jill Weisenberger, M.S., R.D.N., C.D.E : Before You Lose Your Mental Edge

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April 4, 2014

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Amy Peterson: A life of love: How to build lasting relationships with your children

John Ericson: Older Women: Save Your Heart, Prevent Stroke Don't Drink Diet

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Cameron Huddleston: Best and Worst Buys of April 2014

Stacy Rapacon: Great Mutual Funds for Young Investors

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April 2, 2014

Paul Greenberg: Death and joy in the spring

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Frank Clayton: Get happy: 20 scientifically proven happiness activities

Susan Scutti: It's Genetic! Obesity and the 'Carb Breakdown' Gene

Lecia Bushak: Why Hand Sanitizer May Actually Harm Your Health

Stacy Rapacon: Great Funds You Can Own for $500 or Less

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Jewish World Review July 29, 2005 / 22 Tammuz, 5765

Up to the elbows in beauty tips

By Lori Borgman

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http://www.JewishWorldReview.com | My grandmother's generation may have been the last group of women to age naturally. Rarely did they hit bottom because of gray hair, wrinkles and the relentless pull of gravity. If they escaped bursitis, gout and bunions, they were happy campers.

Women today age differently. Reluctantly. Begrudgingly. If surgically possible, not at all (see Joan Rivers, Cher).

We are the generation of moisturizers, wrinkle erasers and firming lotions guaranteed to firm skin that wasn't firm 20 years ago. Short of needles, I am in there with the rest of them, working to preserve what I have left.

Frankly, I thought the battle was going reasonably well. By reasonably well I mean that were I standing next to an accident involving semi-trucks, live chickens and large circus animals, I'm fairly certain people would slow down and gasp at the accident, not the lines on my face.

And then I happened upon a disturbing item on television.

Turns out, most of us have been focused on our faces when we should have been focused on our arms. This is according to, a highly excitable woman on one of those home shopping programs.

Under different circumstances, I might find Rhonda somewhat heroic, because few women I know would extend their arms before a television camera and jiggle the flesh hanging beneath, while screaming and writhing in disgust at her own body. Rhonda said the answer to this horror is something called — ready? — The Arm Shaper.

The Arm Shaper looks like a stretch of pantyhose that was thrown out of a car window after a hold up at a convenience store. But, as Rhonda demonstrated, The Arm Shaper does not go over the head; it goes over the arms like long tube socks without feet. Rhonda slipped it on and, voila!, her arms no longer jiggled. I'm sure this was a relief to viewers everywhere, although those watching with me simply said, ‘Ewwwwww! ’

Despite a fascinating presentation, Rhonda failed to address the matter of what wearers of The Arm Shaper might say when asked, ‘So, what's with the panty hose on your arm? ’

But now Rhonda came to her final selling point. The Arm Shaper could take care of another awful, ugly, unsightly, extremely disgusting phenomena women must confront — the elbow. Yes, ladies, forget your face, your weight, your backside, your front side. Your elbows may be the most hideous, revolting sign of age.

Wonder why you didn't get the big promotion?

Elbows, honey, elbows.

Turned down for a second mortgage?

Well, what did you think with elbows like those?

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And don't you just know what all those young guys are saying when pretty girls walk by: ‘Whoa! Get a load of those elbows! ’

Rhonda, now wearing The Arm Shaper and pleased as punch that her flab no longer flops and her hideous elbows have been camouflaged, is a woman who will settle for nothing short of perfection.

I wonder if Rhonda has noticed the two holes at the bottom of her nose and if she is prepared to do something about those as well.

Personally, I am a function over form gal. In my book, the elbow is utilitarian: a quick jab to the husband, a self-defense weapon at the mall, a firm base for a head-in-hand nap in a chair.

I don't care how it looks, I'm just glad it works.

Maybe I'm more like my grandmother's generation than I thought.

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