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Jewish World Review
April 21, 2009
/ 27 Nissan 5769
The more given, the less earned
By
Dennis Prager
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One of the reasons for the ascendance of the English-speaking world has been that the English language is almost alone among major languages in having the word "earn."
Those of us whose native language is English assume that the phrase "to earn a living" is universal. It isn't. It is almost unique to English. Few languages have the ability to say this.
In the Romance languages, for example - a list that includes such major languages as Spanish, French, and Italian the word used when saying someone "earns" money, is "ganar" in Spanish, "gagner" in French. The word literally means "to win." In Hebrew the word "marveach" means "profits." In German, the word "verdient" means "deserves."
Obviously, it is very different to "win" or to "deserve" or to "profit" than to "earn."
Since the 1960s-'70s, a concerted effort has been made to weed the word, and therefore the cultural value, of "earning" from American life. Increasingly little is earned. Instead of earning, we are increasingly owed, or we have more rights, or we are simply given.
Many American kids no longer earn awards or trophies for athletic success. They are given trophies and awards for showing up. These trophies are not earned, just granted essentially for breathing.
Another increasingly widespread concept that undermines the notion of earning is "unconditional love." The term, which was barely used prior to the 1960s, is now ubiquitous. It is a prominent goal, a human ideal to strive for. The idea of having to earn love is more than unheard of today; it would strike most moderns as morally suspect.
We expect unconditional love not only from parents to babies and toddlers, but to children of any age, no matter how they act. Parental unconditional love means that all people, no matter how disgracefully they act - even toward a parent and no matter how old they are, must be shown infinite love from their parents. Parental love is never to be earned, always to be given.
We expect G-d to show unconditional love to all people, again no matter how they act. According to the doctrine of divine unconditional love, G-d loves sadists as much as He loves the kindest individuals. No one earns G-d's love; we receive it, like sports trophies, for breathing. Many fine people believe this about G-d, but I think it is religio-cultural-specific, and non-biblical. In 15 years of study in a yeshiva I had never heard the phrase, and it would have struck me, as it still does, as quite odd. It depicts G-d as a love machine who, like an air-conditioner that emits the same amount of cold air no matter how the inhabitants of a house act, emits the same amount of love no matter we act. It means that we in no way influence G-d's love for us. I don't find that comforting. And it is certainly no more likely to induce decent behavior in human beings than a G-d who does show conditional love based on human decency.
We expect unconditional love meaning unearned love from spouses. No matter how awfully you treat your wife or husband, as soon as you were married, you were owed unconditional love. While your spouse and you had to earn each other's love prior to marriage, the moment you got married, you no longer had to earn the other's love.
We also expect forgiveness to be given without being earned. Many people believe in what I call automatic forgiveness the obligation to forgive anyone any crime, committed against anyone, no matter how many victims and no matter how removed from my life. Thus the pastor of a church attended by then-President Bill Clinton told the president and all others at a Sunday service that all Christians were obligated to forgive Timothy McVeigh, the terrorist murderer of 168 people. Did McVeigh earn this forgiveness? Of course not. So where did the notion of unearned forgiveness come from, especially unearned forgiveness from people who were not the victims of the evil being forgiven? It is one thing for me to forgive those who have hurt me; it is quite another for others to forgive those who have hurt me. G-d Himself demands that we earn forgiveness. The term for that is repentance. No repentance, no forgiveness.
Finally, the increasingly powerful culture of entitlement and rights further undermines the value of earning anything. The more the state gives to its citizens, the less they have to earn. That is the basic concept of the welfare state you receive almost everything you need without having to earn any of it. About half of Americans now pay no federal income tax but they receive all government benefits just as if they had paid for, i.e., earned, them.
America became a great civilization thanks to a culture based on the value of having to earn almost everything an American got in life. As it abandons this value, it will become a mediocre civilization. And eventually it will not be America. It will be a large Sweden, and just as influential as the smaller one.
JWR contributor Dennis Prager hosts a national daily radio show based in Los Angeles. He the author of, most recently, "Happiness is a Serious Problem". Click here to comment on this column.
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