Jewish World Review
April 12, 2006
/ 14 Nissan, 5766
The Good Life
By
Marty Nemko
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Consciously or unconsciously, we all are trying to figure out what is The Good Life.
Here's my current shot at it:
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A career in which
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the work feels of value
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the work is moderate in quantity, difficulty, and stress.
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you're liked by boss and coworkers
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the work environment is pleasant
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there are opportunities to learn and grow
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the commute is reasonable
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you earn a middle-class or higher salary.
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you can be ethical.
(Notice that I didn't include, "a career you're passionate about." Enduring career passion is too rare to be considered requisite
to The Good Life.)
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An avocation you're passionate about. Many people are passionate about: painting, playing an instrument, acting,
filmmaking, writing, gardening, collecting, genealogy, politics, cars, computer games, pets, a sport, public speaking,
photography, or making things from wood. Religion isn't really an avocation, but for some people consider it their primary
outside-of-work passion.
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Deep relationships: romantic, parent, child, mentor, protégé, friend.
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Gratitude. Going through life with an appreciation for all that's good: from your health to your not living in squalor, plus all
the small stuff: from that tasty tuna fish sandwich to the smell after a rain. The flip side is the ability to not overreact to life's
negatives.
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Kindness. You'll feel better about your life if you prioritize being thoughtful.
