JWR Purim
March 3, 1998 / 5 Adar, 5758

Anti-Semitism and the Jewish Response, Page 4

Clever pedagogy

Modern Jews are often much concerned with the problem of how to steel their children against the effects of some cruel anti-Semitic remark or incident. In other times and places, the wider prevalence of anti-Semitism may have been ground for much greater preoccupation with this matter on the part of Jewish parents. But even in our time and place, we are occasionally made aware that unless our children are mentally and emotionally strengthened against the after-effects of exposure to antiSemitism then resultant feelings of insecurity, inferiority, and fear can greatly damage their proper Jewish and human development. What rare pedagogical cleverness there is, therefore, in giving our children a weapon of such devastating ridicule as the repeated sounding of the gragger (noisemaker) upon mention of Haman's name.

And as the jeering of the gragger, gives voice, with triumphant derision to our deep-seated conviction that the end of our enemies can never be different than Haman's, do we not find ourselves in possession of a subtle pedagogic device of rare effectiveness for imparting to our children an abiding faith in the eternity of Israel; a faith whose strength will make them immune to the psychological hurt of anti-Semitism? (Let it be noted, however, that the gragger element of Purim when exaggerated -- as we often allow it to be -- will lose its effectiveness. As in all things, a sense of proper balance is vital.)

Jewish brotherhood

In our contemporary frame of Jewish reference, the emphasis on the importance of brotherhood activities is often "restricted" to the inter-religious or inter-denominational brotherhood. We somehow forget that the cultivation of human love in a universal sense needs for its native soil a sense of love for one's own. Where love of one's own is absent, the seeds of universal love can find no place in which to take root and grow. The area, in which the soul of a person is formed and molded, is first and foremost the limited orbit of childhood relations; a person must learn the meaning of love within his family before he can learn to love his community. Chronologically, too, love of people is preceded by love of community. One can never learn to love the whole wide world without first having learned to love his own people. How terribly twisted is the logic that inverts the natural order of these various radii by cultivating the capacity of the individual Jewish human soul to love others before itself. Often the impression is inescapable that some of our brotherhood programs are a "cover-up" for the lack of these same qualities among our own.

How much more is this true in times like ours, when the non-Jewish world is not only unaffected in the least by our "protestations of brotherhood," but has evinced for us only hate or, at best, cold disregard for our suffering? And it is as if the beautiful Purim custom of mishlo'ach manos -- gifts to friends -- were to say to us: "When the hatred of Hamanism surrounds you, doubly reinforce among yourselves, the love and concern of one Jew for another."

Concern for the poor and needy

On Purim, with even greater emphasis than on other Jewish holidays, we are enjoined to make certain that no Jew or Jewess be deprived of the joy of the festival because of material poverty. And this we are bidden to do personally, not organizationally. Our own Purim feast, would be incomplete were we not to enable other Jews as well to have a Purim feast. And this direct, personal mode in Jewish charity is the one most distinguishing and necessary feature of Jewish giving for the alleviation of need. Where Jewish charity ceases to be personal, it ceases after a while to be Jewish.

Restrained gaiety

The usual accompaniments of a carnival -- such as masquerading, drinking intoxicating beverages -- are foreign to the Jewish mood of life on all other days of the year. Purim, however, is an exception. Normally, it would be considered a strange thing for the Rabbis to approve or condone, much less foster forms of enjoyment and relaxation that seek to give pleasure through a strong enough stimulation of the senses and the imagination to temporarily "block" out the sense of reality and of rational and moral experience that has its roots in reason and conscience. Of Purim, by contrast, the Rabbis say: "A person is enjoined to drink on Purim till he no longer knows the difference between the words 'cursed be Haman' and 'blessed be Mordechai'." Masquerading has also been proverbially popular on Purim. Frivolous impersonations of even the most respected leaders and members of the community, rabbinic as well as lay, has always been encouraged on Purim.

Even at this point, however, there is a distinctively Jewish note to be discerned. For one thing, even devout and pious Jews, to whom the fulfillment of a mitzvah is a felt necessity whatever the cost and whatever the inconvenience, somehow never manage to fulfill "the mitzvah" of inebriation on Purim quite completely. They become a little high perhaps, but hardly ever manage to lose sufficient clarity of consciousness and conscience to be properly classified as drunks. In fact it is precisely when they have imbibed -- when the elements of subconscious motivation often break the bonds of their normally clever ability to conceal them -- that the true nobility of the Torah-formed personality shines through. For in those moments, there becomes apparent how deeply the study and life of Torah affects the substructure of personality.

There is still another "inversion" of a deeply rooted Jewish attitude, which reflects rich symbolism -- the recitation of grammen (rhymes). B'nei Torah fortify themselves sufficiently, but not excessively, with spirits to cast away their deeply ingrained reverence for each work and phrase of the Torah and the writings of the Rabbis, and utilize Torah and Rabbinic texts torn out of context, for rhymed perorations that frivolously satirize the failings both of the community and of its outstanding personalities. Aside from serving as a valve for the release of popular grievances, and imposing upon the community's leadership the awareness that their behavior is periodically subject to critical review, the recitation of grammen is perhaps an indirect expression of an abiding Jewish conviction: the understanding that the hand of Providence allows anti-Semitism to do us harm only after we become Jewishly weakened by our own failings and shortcomings. And it is as if we were saying through the mask of merriment: "We have not forgotten that our own striving for Jewish self-improvement is the strongest and truest safeguard against the menace of anti-Semitism -- for, has not King Solomon taught us that 'the heart of a king is in the hand of Hashem'! And, therefore, can any enemy prevail against us unless our own shortcomings hae made us vulnerable by taking from us the shield of Divine Protection?

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Rabbi Nachman Bulman, who resides in Israel, was a founder of the kiruv (outreach) movement.

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