Jewish World Review March 5, 2012/ 12 Adar, 5772
Death of a forever-young pop idol
By Mitch Albom
I didn't think that was possible.
If there was ever a forever-young pop idol, "Davy" was it. Boyish-faced, long-haired, short, thin, British accent, always goofing around with the other Monkees, singing bubble-gum music and making little girls scream.
And while he wasn't the first singer to make girls swoon -- the Beatles, Elvis,
I looked up an old cover of
The stories themselves were equally gushing. There was no talk of drugs, arrests, DUIs or sex. Maybe they'd mention a first kiss -- in the same cooing tones reserved for a Prince Charming.
But stardom was different back then.
For one thing, even a huge star like Davy Jones had limited exposure to your everyday life. There's a big difference between hanging a poster in your bedroom and tweeting, YouTubing and Googling your heartthrob's every minute. As massively popular as Jones was, you only saw him once a week on "The Monkees" TV show, or maybe an occasional interview somewhere.
Doesn't that take the mystery out of it? I remember girls in our neighborhood writing letters to Davy Jones, then waiting for the mailman each afternoon. Sure enough, one day, an envelope would arrive with a signed photo inside, and the girls would rip it open and scream and then, if I recall correctly, pass out.
It was all sweet and innocent and over in its time, as pop infatuations should be.
Today, teens have a different relationship with fame. It envelops them. It is both entertainment and goal. Their stars are not just singers in pop bands, but reality show creations like the Kardashians and the "Jersey Shore" group. They make their own videos. They nurture their own legends on
The most recent Teen Choice Awards named "Bad Teacher" the favorite comedy film (an R-rated movie, theoretically off-limits to many teens) and "Glee" the favorite TV comedy. "Glee," like "The Monkees," features a put-together group of singers, but unlike "The Monkees," surrounds them with story lines of teenage pregnancies, teachers having romantic affairs, and kids exploring all avenues of their sexuality.
In "The Monkees," Davy would get kidnapped in order to marry a princess.
But, as I said, it was a different time, a time of tambourines and "Daydream Believer." Davy Jones didn't curse in his music, didn't get arrested, didn't beat up men or women, and -- in our minds, anyhow -- didn't grow old.
In real life, of course, he did. I saw a joke he told
He died this past week, at 66, of a heart attack, which has its poignancy, given the palpitations he caused an entire generation of girls. I don't know why his passing saddens me as much as it does. I never mailed him a letter. Never waited for a signed photo. Maybe it's just that whole end of innocence thing. Or maybe that Jones, unlike so many big names today, seemed to really enjoy being a pop star while never acting as if it was a birthright.
I read where the first night he performed on "The Ed Sullivan Show," at age 18, he sang "I'd Do Anything" from the
Davy Jones watched in awe from backstage, seeing the girls go crazy. You wonder if he knew he was seeing his future.
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