In this issue

Jonathan Tobin: Defending the Right to a Jewish State

Heather Hale: Compliment your kids without giving them big heads

Megan Shauri: 10 ways you are ruining your own happiness

Carolyn Bigda: 8 Best Dividend Stocks for 2015

Kiplinger's Personal Finance editors: 7 Things You Didn't Know About Paying Off Student Loans

Samantha Olson: The Crucial Mistake 55% Of Parents Are Making At Their Baby's Bedtime

Densie Well, Ph.D., R.D. Open your eyes to yellow vegetables

The Kosher Gourmet by Megan Gordon With its colorful cache of purples and oranges and reds, COLLARD GREEN SLAW is a marvelous mood booster --- not to mention just downright delish
April 18, 2014

Rabbi Yonason Goldson: Clarifying one of the greatest philosophical conundrums in theology

Caroline B. Glick: The disappearance of US will

Megan Wallgren: 10 things I've learned from my teenagers

Lizette Borreli: Green Tea Boosts Brain Power, May Help Treat Dementia

John Ericson: Trying hard to be 'positive' but never succeeding? Blame Your Brain

The Kosher Gourmet by Julie Rothman Almondy, flourless torta del re (Italian king's cake), has royal roots, is simple to make, . . . but devour it because it's simply delicious

April 14, 2014

Rabbi Dr Naftali Brawer: Passover frees us from the tyranny of time

Greg Crosby: Passing Over Religion

Eric Schulzke: First degree: How America really recovered from a murder epidemic

Georgia Lee: When love is not enough: Teaching your kids about the realities of adult relationships

Cameron Huddleston: Freebies for Your Lawn and Garden

Gordon Pape: How you can tell if your financial adviser is setting you up for potential ruin

Dana Dovey: Up to 500,000 people die each year from hepatitis C-related liver disease. New Treatment Has Over 90% Success Rate

Justin Caba: Eating Watermelon Can Help Control High Blood Pressure

The Kosher Gourmet by Joshua E. London and Lou Marmon Don't dare pass over these Pesach picks for Manischewitz!

April 11, 2014

Rabbi Hillel Goldberg: Silence is much more than golden

Caroline B. Glick: Forgetting freedom at Passover

Susan Swann: How to value a child for who he is, not just what he does

Cameron Huddleston: 7 Financial Tasks You Should Tackle Right Now

Sandra Block and Lisa Gerstner: How to Profit From Your Passion

Susan Scutti: A Simple Blood Test Might Soon Diagnose Cancer

Chris Weller: Have A Slow Metabolism? Let Science Speed It Up For You

The Kosher Gourmet by Diane Rossen Worthington Whitefish Terrine: A French take on gefilte fish

April 9, 2014

Jonathan Tobin: Why Did Kerry Lie About Israeli Blame?

Samuel G. Freedman: A resolution 70 years later for a father's unsettling legacy of ashes from Dachau

Jessica Ivins: A resolution 70 years later for a father's unsettling legacy of ashes from Dachau

Kim Giles: Asking for help is not weakness

Kathy Kristof and Barbara Hoch Marcus: 7 Great Growth Israeli Stocks

Matthew Mientka: How Beans, Peas, And Chickpeas Cleanse Bad Cholesterol and Lowers Risk of Heart Disease

Sabrina Bachai: 5 At-Home Treatments For Headaches

The Kosher Gourmet by Daniel Neman Have yourself a matzo ball: The secrets bubby never told you and recipes she could have never imagined

April 8, 2014

Lori Nawyn: At Your Wit's End and Back: Finding Peace

Susan B. Garland and Rachel L. Sheedy: Strategies Married Couples Can Use to Boost Benefits

David Muhlbaum: Smart Tax Deductions Non-Itemizers Can Claim

Jill Weisenberger, M.S., R.D.N., C.D.E : Before You Lose Your Mental Edge

Dana Dovey: Coffee Drinkers Rejoice! Your Cup Of Joe Can Prevent Death From Liver Disease

Chris Weller: Electric 'Thinking Cap' Puts Your Brain Power Into High Gear

The Kosher Gourmet by Marlene Parrish A gift of hazelnuts keeps giving --- for a variety of nutty recipes: Entree, side, soup, dessert

April 4, 2014

Rabbi David Gutterman: The Word for Nothing Means Everything

Charles Krauthammer: Kerry's folly, Chapter 3

Amy Peterson: A life of love: How to build lasting relationships with your children

John Ericson: Older Women: Save Your Heart, Prevent Stroke Don't Drink Diet

John Ericson: Why 50 million Americans will still have spring allergies after taking meds

Cameron Huddleston: Best and Worst Buys of April 2014

Stacy Rapacon: Great Mutual Funds for Young Investors

Sarah Boesveld: Teacher keeps promise to mail thousands of former students letters written by their past selves

The Kosher Gourmet by Sharon Thompson Anyone can make a salad, you say. But can they make a great salad? (SECRETS, TESTED TECHNIQUES + 4 RECIPES, INCLUDING DRESSINGS)

April 2, 2014

Paul Greenberg: Death and joy in the spring

Dan Barry: Should South Carolina Jews be forced to maintain this chimney built by Germans serving the Nazis?

Mayra Bitsko: Save me! An alien took over my child's personality

Frank Clayton: Get happy: 20 scientifically proven happiness activities

Susan Scutti: It's Genetic! Obesity and the 'Carb Breakdown' Gene

Lecia Bushak: Why Hand Sanitizer May Actually Harm Your Health

Stacy Rapacon: Great Funds You Can Own for $500 or Less

Cameron Huddleston: 7 Ways to Save on Home Decor

The Kosher Gourmet by Steve Petusevsky Exploring ingredients as edible-stuffed containers (TWO RECIPES + TIPS & TECHINQUES)

Jewish World Review

In Social Security reports, a story of women's priorities

By Susan Reimer

http://www.JewishWorldReview.com | Just about every year, the Social Security Administration sends my husband and me a statement, showing how much we have earned each year of our working lives, what we have contributed to Social Security and what our benefits will be when we retire.

The document is kind of amusing. I didn't remember what I made at 16 as a salad girl for a smorgasbord restaurant, but there it is. And I can see what my husband made as a bus boy at a local hotel restaurant during college.

But I used these Social Security statements to create another kind of report for my son and my daughter, both adults now and earning a living.

"See?" I said, running my finger down the columns of years and dollars.

"These are your dad's earnings and my earnings in the days when we were both single reporters." The numbers are pretty much the same, except that he was older and had a couple of modest raises under his belt.

"Now look here," I said. "This is the year I took six months unpaid maternity leave for you, Joseph. And Jessica, this is me, going back to work only part time after you were born.

"And here," I said, "is me returning to work full-time more than a decade later. Look at the difference."

My husband and I were still in the newspaper business, and though we'd started out making pretty much the same money — a union helps this happen — now he was making almost twice as much as I was.

The point I was trying to make to my children was about the "cost" of children, and it could not have been more clear.

If you are counting on two paychecks to keep afloat the families that you will one day have, I told them, you better factor in the financial hit one of those wage earners is going to take for the sake of the children.

So, it was not a surprise to me when the White House reported last week that although women outnumber men among high school and college graduates and women almost outnumber men in the workforce, women still earn only 75 cents for every dollar earned by a male co-worker, a number that has barely changed in decades.

The report, "Women in America: Indicators of Social and Economic Well-Being," was President Barack Obama's gift, of sorts, to women on the first day of Women's History Month. There hadn't been an assessment of the status of women in this country since Eleanor Roosevelt did one for President John F. Kennedy in 1963 — which is itself very telling.

The reasons for the stubborn pay gap largely have to do with male and female career path choices: nurse instead of doctor; teacher instead of sales manager.

But it is also true that women work fewer hours per week, fewer weeks each year and fewer years during their work lives, and they assume much more of the uncompensated work of caring for the home and raising the kids.

There is discrimination in the hiring and promotion of women, certainly. But women also tend to represent a self-selecting group. Once a woman has a family, in most cases, her career becomes kind of conditional, because there is no doubt which is more important in the crunch — a job or a child.

The workaholic model has benefited my husband, but once the children arrived, I no longer fit that model, and that's the reason for our own personal pay gap. I am guessing it is part of the reason for the national pay gap, too.

Put my Social Security statement up against my husband's and you will see more than columns of dates and dollars. You will see choices we have made — I have made — over the life of our family.

It is all there, in black and white. But it still comes as a bit of a shock.

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Susan Reimer is a columnist for The Baltimore Sun. Comment by clicking here.


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