In this issue

Jonathan Tobin: Defending the Right to a Jewish State

Heather Hale: Compliment your kids without giving them big heads

Megan Shauri: 10 ways you are ruining your own happiness

Carolyn Bigda: 8 Best Dividend Stocks for 2015

Kiplinger's Personal Finance editors: 7 Things You Didn't Know About Paying Off Student Loans

Samantha Olson: The Crucial Mistake 55% Of Parents Are Making At Their Baby's Bedtime

Densie Well, Ph.D., R.D. Open your eyes to yellow vegetables

The Kosher Gourmet by Megan Gordon With its colorful cache of purples and oranges and reds, COLLARD GREEN SLAW is a marvelous mood booster --- not to mention just downright delish
April 18, 2014

Rabbi Yonason Goldson: Clarifying one of the greatest philosophical conundrums in theology

Caroline B. Glick: The disappearance of US will

Megan Wallgren: 10 things I've learned from my teenagers

Lizette Borreli: Green Tea Boosts Brain Power, May Help Treat Dementia

John Ericson: Trying hard to be 'positive' but never succeeding? Blame Your Brain

The Kosher Gourmet by Julie Rothman Almondy, flourless torta del re (Italian king's cake), has royal roots, is simple to make, . . . but devour it because it's simply delicious

April 14, 2014

Rabbi Dr Naftali Brawer: Passover frees us from the tyranny of time

Greg Crosby: Passing Over Religion

Eric Schulzke: First degree: How America really recovered from a murder epidemic

Georgia Lee: When love is not enough: Teaching your kids about the realities of adult relationships

Cameron Huddleston: Freebies for Your Lawn and Garden

Gordon Pape: How you can tell if your financial adviser is setting you up for potential ruin

Dana Dovey: Up to 500,000 people die each year from hepatitis C-related liver disease. New Treatment Has Over 90% Success Rate

Justin Caba: Eating Watermelon Can Help Control High Blood Pressure

The Kosher Gourmet by Joshua E. London and Lou Marmon Don't dare pass over these Pesach picks for Manischewitz!

April 11, 2014

Rabbi Hillel Goldberg: Silence is much more than golden

Caroline B. Glick: Forgetting freedom at Passover

Susan Swann: How to value a child for who he is, not just what he does

Cameron Huddleston: 7 Financial Tasks You Should Tackle Right Now

Sandra Block and Lisa Gerstner: How to Profit From Your Passion

Susan Scutti: A Simple Blood Test Might Soon Diagnose Cancer

Chris Weller: Have A Slow Metabolism? Let Science Speed It Up For You

The Kosher Gourmet by Diane Rossen Worthington Whitefish Terrine: A French take on gefilte fish

April 9, 2014

Jonathan Tobin: Why Did Kerry Lie About Israeli Blame?

Samuel G. Freedman: A resolution 70 years later for a father's unsettling legacy of ashes from Dachau

Jessica Ivins: A resolution 70 years later for a father's unsettling legacy of ashes from Dachau

Kim Giles: Asking for help is not weakness

Kathy Kristof and Barbara Hoch Marcus: 7 Great Growth Israeli Stocks

Matthew Mientka: How Beans, Peas, And Chickpeas Cleanse Bad Cholesterol and Lowers Risk of Heart Disease

Sabrina Bachai: 5 At-Home Treatments For Headaches

The Kosher Gourmet by Daniel Neman Have yourself a matzo ball: The secrets bubby never told you and recipes she could have never imagined

April 8, 2014

Lori Nawyn: At Your Wit's End and Back: Finding Peace

Susan B. Garland and Rachel L. Sheedy: Strategies Married Couples Can Use to Boost Benefits

David Muhlbaum: Smart Tax Deductions Non-Itemizers Can Claim

Jill Weisenberger, M.S., R.D.N., C.D.E : Before You Lose Your Mental Edge

Dana Dovey: Coffee Drinkers Rejoice! Your Cup Of Joe Can Prevent Death From Liver Disease

Chris Weller: Electric 'Thinking Cap' Puts Your Brain Power Into High Gear

The Kosher Gourmet by Marlene Parrish A gift of hazelnuts keeps giving --- for a variety of nutty recipes: Entree, side, soup, dessert

April 4, 2014

Rabbi David Gutterman: The Word for Nothing Means Everything

Charles Krauthammer: Kerry's folly, Chapter 3

Amy Peterson: A life of love: How to build lasting relationships with your children

John Ericson: Older Women: Save Your Heart, Prevent Stroke Don't Drink Diet

John Ericson: Why 50 million Americans will still have spring allergies after taking meds

Cameron Huddleston: Best and Worst Buys of April 2014

Stacy Rapacon: Great Mutual Funds for Young Investors

Sarah Boesveld: Teacher keeps promise to mail thousands of former students letters written by their past selves

The Kosher Gourmet by Sharon Thompson Anyone can make a salad, you say. But can they make a great salad? (SECRETS, TESTED TECHNIQUES + 4 RECIPES, INCLUDING DRESSINGS)

April 2, 2014

Paul Greenberg: Death and joy in the spring

Dan Barry: Should South Carolina Jews be forced to maintain this chimney built by Germans serving the Nazis?

Mayra Bitsko: Save me! An alien took over my child's personality

Frank Clayton: Get happy: 20 scientifically proven happiness activities

Susan Scutti: It's Genetic! Obesity and the 'Carb Breakdown' Gene

Lecia Bushak: Why Hand Sanitizer May Actually Harm Your Health

Stacy Rapacon: Great Funds You Can Own for $500 or Less

Cameron Huddleston: 7 Ways to Save on Home Decor

The Kosher Gourmet by Steve Petusevsky Exploring ingredients as edible-stuffed containers (TWO RECIPES + TIPS & TECHINQUES)

Jewish World Review

Better sleep without pills

By Harvard Health Letters

What to do before turning to medication | The world looks very different at 3 a.m. when you're lying in bed staring at the ceiling--or worse, the clock. All you do is worry, "How will I make it through tomorrow without any sleep?"

If you often have trouble falling asleep or staying asleep, you might have thought about trying sleeping pills. Although these medicines can help you drift off to sleep, they also can have side effects, including an increased risk for falls and morning drowsiness that can make next-day driving dangerous. That's why in January, the U.S Food and Drug Administration began requiring manufacturers to lower the recommended dosage of hypnotic sleep aids containing zolpidem (such as Ambien).

Before turning to medication, it's important to identify whether you even have a sleep problem.

"Some people are bothered that they wake up at all, but they wake up, go to the bathroom, and go right back to sleep. There's nothing wrong with that," explains Dr. Hadine Joffe, associate professor of psychiatry at Harvard Medical School. Taking 20 minutes to fall asleep also doesn't necessarily mean you have a sleep issue, she says.

If you regularly can't get to sleep or stay asleep and it's affecting you during the day, then you may have insomnia. But before you take medicine to help you sleep, Dr. Joffe recommends trying lifestyle interventions--such as avoiding caffeine and sticking to a regular sleep schedule. It can also be helpful to see a doctor so you can find out whether a medical condition is causing your sleep troubles.


There are several reasons why sleep problems are especially common in women, says Dr. Julia Schlam Edelman, clinical instructor in obstetrics and reproductive biology at Harvard Medical School and author of "Harvard's Successful Sleep Strategies for Women."

"One is the obesity rate. Sixty-five percent of women are overweight. And overweight women are more likely to have sleep-disordered breathing," she says. Sleep-disordered breathing often refers to obstructive sleep apnea, a condition in which the airway becomes periodically blocked during the night. This blockage temporarily cuts off airflow, leading to snoring and frequent sleep interruptions.

Health issues such as a thyroid condition, anemia, menopausal hot flashes, heartburn, incontinence, and depression can also affect both the quality and quantity of sleep. And the medicines you take to treat health conditions--including beta blockers for high blood pressure, cold remedies containing alcohol, and migraine remedies with caffeine--can all disrupt sleep.


Sometimes insomnia is so severe that you want to try medicine to help you sleep. Before grabbing a bottle of sleeping pills off the drugstore shelf however, try following the steps outlined in "Sleep Problems and Solutions" (below). If these steps don't work, see your doctor, who can rule out any medical causes for your sleep issues.

You can start by trying a natural sleep aid, such as melatonin, a hormone that helps regulate the body's sleep-wake cycle.


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"Melatonin tends to be effective for women over 55," Dr. Edelman says. It's also safe, with few side effects. Valerian root is another herbal sleep remedy. It can have side effects, though, including headaches.

You may need to turn to over-the-counter or prescription sleep medicines if insomnia is having a real impact on your health and daily function, says Dr. Joffe. Check with your doctor before taking any sleep aid--even ones you purchase without a prescription.

"Over-the-counter sleep aids can be addictive, and they can interact with other medications," Dr. Edelman says.

Only use prescription sleep aids such as eszopiclone (Lunesta), ramelteon (Rozerem), zaleplon (Sonata), or zolpidem (Ambien) as a last resort when other treatments haven't worked. Because these medicines can worsen sleep apnea, discuss with your doctor whether you might have sleep apnea.

To take prescription sleep aids safely, "You always need to be cautious about dosing," Dr. Joffe says. Ask your doctor whether you can start on the lowest-dose, shortest-acting sleep aid possible. As you get older, your body processes and removes medicine more slowly than it did when you were younger. Also make sure you have the number of hours recommended on the package available to sleep, so you're not groggy the next morning.


Here are some common sleep problems and how to treat them:

Problem: I'm tired, but I just can't fall asleep.

Solution: Try lifestyle changes, avoiding factors that might be keeping you awake. Limit caffeine and alcohol (especially before bedtime); make sure your bedroom is cool, dark, and comfortable; and turn off all electronics (including the book you're reading on your tablet computer) one hour before bed.

Problem: I get seven or eight hours of sleep a night, but when I wake up I'm exhausted. Also, my partner says I snore.

Solution: See your doctor, who might order a sleep study to test you for sleep apnea.

Problem: My joints ache so much that I can't fall asleep.

Solution: Ask your doctor about arthritis pain relievers, such as nonsteroidal anti-inflammatory drugs (NSAIDs) and corticosteroids.

Problem: I'm too stressed out to sleep.

Solution: Try stress-relieving techniques, such as meditating, taking a warm bath, or listening to music. Before you go to bed, Dr. Joffe suggests writing down a "worry list" of everything that's on your mind. Once the worries are on paper, it can be easier to put them aside. "It's such a simple thing but it's very effective," she says.

Problem: My legs twitch, tingle, and itch so uncontrollably that I can't fall asleep, and once I do fall asleep I keep waking up.

Solution: You could have restless legs syndrome (RLS). Your doctor might suggest stretching or massaging your legs before bed. You can also take a warm bath. If lifestyle interventions don't work, there are medicines available to treat RLS.

Problem: I keep waking up in the middle of the night to use the bathroom.

Solution: Limit caffeine and alcohol, which can increase the urge to urinate. Stop drinking fluids a few hours before bedtime. And use the bathroom right before you get into bed. If you're taking diuretic medicines, talk to your doctor, because they could be contributing to the problem.

Problem: My heartburn is keeping me awake.

Solution: Try raising the head of the bed 4 to 6 inches. Eat dinner at least two to three hours before bedtime, and don't eat anything too heavy. Avoid foods that can trigger heartburn, such as chocolate, coffee, caffeinated drinks, spicy foods, and fatty foods. -- Harvard Women's Health Watch

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