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Your role of a lifetime Rabbi B. Shafier
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Life brings many questions: Why do some people have such difficult lives, while others have it so easy? Why is there so much suffering in the world? Why are there so many tragic deaths?
To make sense out life, we need understanding, to gain understanding we need perspective. Let's begin with a parable:
A famous actor receives a call from his agent.
"Listen, Jack we just got a great offer. Tons of money, an all cash deal, you get the star role, playing next to the greatest co -stars in the industry. But the best part of it is the plot, it's great. The story line really clicks, it's a guaranteed Oscar. I'm sending the script over this morning. Tell me what you think."
After reading the script Jack calls his agent back.
"Listen Bob, forget it, no deal".
"What do mean?"
"I mean it's no way, no deal. I won't do it."
"Jack what is it? Is it the script?"
"No, the script is fine?"
"Is it the other actors?"
"No, they're fine too."
"So Jack, what is it?"
"What is it? Bob, don't you get it? The guy that you want me to play is penniless and not too bright either. More than that, he's a jerk! I can't stand anyone seeing me that way."
"But Jack, that's only the part you are playing, it's not you."
"Bob, forget it, doing this production means everyone, I mean millions of people are going to see me as a creep, and a down and out. I can't stand the embarrassment. Don't even ask me again, I'm not doing it." And he hangs up.
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This is a parable to life. Each of us was given an exact set of circumstances, and a specific set of criteria. The backdrop is laid out and we are given the task of playing the role. Born into a particular time period, to a specific family, given an exact set of parameters — you will be so tall, so intelligent, have so much of this talent and so much of this one. Now, go out there and do it! Live your life, ford those streams, cross those rivers, and sail those seas! Live up to your potential. At the end of your days you will be judged — but not you compared to me — nor me compared to you: you will be judged by a far more demanding yardstick, you will be measured by how close you came to accomplishing all that you were capable of.
The Vilna Gaon, tells us that the most painful moment in a person's life is after you leave this earth; when you stand before the heavenly tribunal, and they hold up a picture for you to look at; a picture of a truly exceptional individual — a person of sterling character traits, who shows intelligence, kindliness, and humility — a person of true greatness. And they say, why didn't you do what he did?
Me?! Little me? What do you want from me? Was I some kind of genius? Was I some kind of powerful leader of men? How could I have done those things?
And they answer the most telling and most troubling line a person will ever hear: that picture is you. Not you, as you stand here now. Not you as you have lived your life. But, that is you had you accomplished what you were put on this earth to do. That is you, had you become what you were destined to be.
They don't ask how much money you made. How attractive you were. How popular. Those are the stage settings of life — hand chosen by the Divine as the perfect environment to allow you to reach your potential. Whether you were smarter, or richer, or more talented then the next person is irrelevant, the only issue is: How much did you accomplish compared to — you, compared to what you were capable of.
Understanding life
A DIFFERENT REALITY
From that perspective very little in life makes sense. Certainly not pain, suffering, or the inequitable distribution of talent and opportunity. However, once a person widens their perspective, to understand that we were created, to grow, to accomplish, and in the end we will be rewarded — judged by only one criterion: how much I grew, in relation to my potential — then life begins to make sense.
The Divine custom designed a set of circumstances for each individual to give him the ultimate setting for his growth and perfection. Not every situation is pleasant — but they are needed to shape us, or give us the opportunity to grow. Once we understand this point, life itself takes on a very different meaning and a person can focus on the purpose of life: fulfilling our mission and purpose in existence.
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Comment by clicking here. JWR contributor Rabbi B. Shafier is the author, most recently, of Stop Surviving, Start Living, from which this essay was excerpted.
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