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Jonathan Tobin: Defending the Right to a Jewish State

Heather Hale: Compliment your kids without giving them big heads

Megan Shauri: 10 ways you are ruining your own happiness

Carolyn Bigda: 8 Best Dividend Stocks for 2015

Kiplinger's Personal Finance editors: 7 Things You Didn't Know About Paying Off Student Loans

Samantha Olson: The Crucial Mistake 55% Of Parents Are Making At Their Baby's Bedtime

Densie Well, Ph.D., R.D. Open your eyes to yellow vegetables

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Rabbi Yonason Goldson: Clarifying one of the greatest philosophical conundrums in theology

Caroline B. Glick: The disappearance of US will

Megan Wallgren: 10 things I've learned from my teenagers

Lizette Borreli: Green Tea Boosts Brain Power, May Help Treat Dementia

John Ericson: Trying hard to be 'positive' but never succeeding? Blame Your Brain

The Kosher Gourmet by Julie Rothman Almondy, flourless torta del re (Italian king's cake), has royal roots, is simple to make, . . . but devour it because it's simply delicious

April 14, 2014

Rabbi Dr Naftali Brawer: Passover frees us from the tyranny of time

Greg Crosby: Passing Over Religion

Eric Schulzke: First degree: How America really recovered from a murder epidemic

Georgia Lee: When love is not enough: Teaching your kids about the realities of adult relationships

Cameron Huddleston: Freebies for Your Lawn and Garden

Gordon Pape: How you can tell if your financial adviser is setting you up for potential ruin

Dana Dovey: Up to 500,000 people die each year from hepatitis C-related liver disease. New Treatment Has Over 90% Success Rate

Justin Caba: Eating Watermelon Can Help Control High Blood Pressure

The Kosher Gourmet by Joshua E. London and Lou Marmon Don't dare pass over these Pesach picks for Manischewitz!

April 11, 2014

Rabbi Hillel Goldberg: Silence is much more than golden

Caroline B. Glick: Forgetting freedom at Passover

Susan Swann: How to value a child for who he is, not just what he does

Cameron Huddleston: 7 Financial Tasks You Should Tackle Right Now

Sandra Block and Lisa Gerstner: How to Profit From Your Passion

Susan Scutti: A Simple Blood Test Might Soon Diagnose Cancer

Chris Weller: Have A Slow Metabolism? Let Science Speed It Up For You

The Kosher Gourmet by Diane Rossen Worthington Whitefish Terrine: A French take on gefilte fish

April 9, 2014

Jonathan Tobin: Why Did Kerry Lie About Israeli Blame?

Samuel G. Freedman: A resolution 70 years later for a father's unsettling legacy of ashes from Dachau

Jessica Ivins: A resolution 70 years later for a father's unsettling legacy of ashes from Dachau

Kim Giles: Asking for help is not weakness

Kathy Kristof and Barbara Hoch Marcus: 7 Great Growth Israeli Stocks

Matthew Mientka: How Beans, Peas, And Chickpeas Cleanse Bad Cholesterol and Lowers Risk of Heart Disease

Sabrina Bachai: 5 At-Home Treatments For Headaches

The Kosher Gourmet by Daniel Neman Have yourself a matzo ball: The secrets bubby never told you and recipes she could have never imagined

April 8, 2014

Lori Nawyn: At Your Wit's End and Back: Finding Peace

Susan B. Garland and Rachel L. Sheedy: Strategies Married Couples Can Use to Boost Benefits

David Muhlbaum: Smart Tax Deductions Non-Itemizers Can Claim

Jill Weisenberger, M.S., R.D.N., C.D.E : Before You Lose Your Mental Edge

Dana Dovey: Coffee Drinkers Rejoice! Your Cup Of Joe Can Prevent Death From Liver Disease

Chris Weller: Electric 'Thinking Cap' Puts Your Brain Power Into High Gear

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April 4, 2014

Rabbi David Gutterman: The Word for Nothing Means Everything

Charles Krauthammer: Kerry's folly, Chapter 3

Amy Peterson: A life of love: How to build lasting relationships with your children

John Ericson: Older Women: Save Your Heart, Prevent Stroke Don't Drink Diet

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Cameron Huddleston: Best and Worst Buys of April 2014

Stacy Rapacon: Great Mutual Funds for Young Investors

Sarah Boesveld: Teacher keeps promise to mail thousands of former students letters written by their past selves

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April 2, 2014

Paul Greenberg: Death and joy in the spring

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Mayra Bitsko: Save me! An alien took over my child's personality

Frank Clayton: Get happy: 20 scientifically proven happiness activities

Susan Scutti: It's Genetic! Obesity and the 'Carb Breakdown' Gene

Lecia Bushak: Why Hand Sanitizer May Actually Harm Your Health

Stacy Rapacon: Great Funds You Can Own for $500 or Less

Cameron Huddleston: 7 Ways to Save on Home Decor

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Jewish World Review Feb. 24, 2011 / 19 Adar I, 5771

Nanny state's best judgment?

By Marybeth Hicks

http://www.JewishWorldReview.com | Let's play Guess the Country. I'll describe a scenario, and you guess where it happened.

A mother goes to the grocery store for 30 minutes, leaving her 14-year-old son to baby-sit his 3-year-old brother. Nothing bad happens while she is out.

Nonetheless, based on the belief that her brief shopping excursion endangered her children, police cite the mother for "committing an act of cruelty on a child or young person," an offense that is reported to the bureau of criminal records. This results in the woman losing her job as a health care worker and prohibits her from working in any capacity that involves children for 10 years.

A yearlong investigation by social services experts eventually deems the woman an exemplary mother, and the government authority that regulates human services employees clears her. Nevertheless, because she has a criminal record that cannot be expunged, she essentially is unemployable in her field.

Think you know where this insane situation occurred?

If you guessed Great Britain, you win, though obviously parents there are losing, big time.

There's no minimum age for a child to be left at home alone in Britain, nor is there a law specifying how old a baby sitter must be, but under that country's Child and Young Persons Act, parents can be prosecuted for neglect if authorities think a lack of supervision is "likely to cause unnecessary suffering or injury to health."

That means nothing bad actually has to happen for parents to be held accountable, with the potential for punishment up to 10 years in prison.

Britain's largest children's charity, the NSPCC, recommends that children younger than 13 should not be left at home alone at all and that baby sitters should be at least 16 years of age. Apparently, the NSPCC doesn't think "date nights" for moms and dads are very important, but I digress.

Clearly, our cousin across the pond is more than just a nanny state. It's a nanny state that wants to assure full employment for nannies.

The woman at the center of this controversy is working to overturn the law that has disrupted her life and livelihood, and she's not alone. Two nurses who last year were barred from working with children on similar grounds are suing the British government.

Hopefully, common sense will prevail in court.

But there's more to this story than simply the ridiculous notion that a young teen isn't competent to baby-sit his sibling. After all, some are not, no argument there.

Aside from the debate about "babyfying" a generation of British teens by keeping them from taking on reasonable responsibilities, the greater issue at stake is one of parental rights: Whose judgment should prevail, the state's or the parent's?

The rights of parents are not at the forefront in Britain, where the U.N. Convention on the Rights of the Child (CRC) was ratified in 1991. For 10 years, through policies and regulations, Britain has indicated its willingness to usurp parental authority in favor of a state-sponsored, government regulated, health-and-safety-obsessed childhood for all of Britain's kids.

Inserting state regulators into decisions about baby sitters is simply the manifestation of a doctrine that asserts that the state has a greater interest than parents in the welfare of its young citizens.

That notion is not just insulting; it's nuts.

It's easy to shrug off this story as though it's just the "news of the weird" from a country that seems to pride itself on tawdry tabloid tidbits. But already in the U.S., parental authority is usurped on grounds that aren't based on actual abuse, but on the notion of the "best interest" of the child.

Just last week, a California kindergartner was admitted to a psychiatric ward against his mother's wishes and without her consent based on a school counselor's opinion of his mental health.

Next thing you know, it's a ticket for "poor parenting."

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JWR contributor Marybeth Hicks, a wife of more than 20 years and mother of four children, lives in the Midwest. She uses her column to share her perspective on issues and experiences that shape families nationwide. To comment, please click here.


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