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Jonathan Tobin: Defending the Right to a Jewish State

Heather Hale: Compliment your kids without giving them big heads

Megan Shauri: 10 ways you are ruining your own happiness

Carolyn Bigda: 8 Best Dividend Stocks for 2015

Kiplinger's Personal Finance editors: 7 Things You Didn't Know About Paying Off Student Loans

Samantha Olson: The Crucial Mistake 55% Of Parents Are Making At Their Baby's Bedtime

Densie Well, Ph.D., R.D. Open your eyes to yellow vegetables

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April 18, 2014

Rabbi Yonason Goldson: Clarifying one of the greatest philosophical conundrums in theology

Caroline B. Glick: The disappearance of US will

Megan Wallgren: 10 things I've learned from my teenagers

Lizette Borreli: Green Tea Boosts Brain Power, May Help Treat Dementia

John Ericson: Trying hard to be 'positive' but never succeeding? Blame Your Brain

The Kosher Gourmet by Julie Rothman Almondy, flourless torta del re (Italian king's cake), has royal roots, is simple to make, . . . but devour it because it's simply delicious

April 14, 2014

Rabbi Dr Naftali Brawer: Passover frees us from the tyranny of time

Greg Crosby: Passing Over Religion

Eric Schulzke: First degree: How America really recovered from a murder epidemic

Georgia Lee: When love is not enough: Teaching your kids about the realities of adult relationships

Cameron Huddleston: Freebies for Your Lawn and Garden

Gordon Pape: How you can tell if your financial adviser is setting you up for potential ruin

Dana Dovey: Up to 500,000 people die each year from hepatitis C-related liver disease. New Treatment Has Over 90% Success Rate

Justin Caba: Eating Watermelon Can Help Control High Blood Pressure

The Kosher Gourmet by Joshua E. London and Lou Marmon Don't dare pass over these Pesach picks for Manischewitz!

April 11, 2014

Rabbi Hillel Goldberg: Silence is much more than golden

Caroline B. Glick: Forgetting freedom at Passover

Susan Swann: How to value a child for who he is, not just what he does

Cameron Huddleston: 7 Financial Tasks You Should Tackle Right Now

Sandra Block and Lisa Gerstner: How to Profit From Your Passion

Susan Scutti: A Simple Blood Test Might Soon Diagnose Cancer

Chris Weller: Have A Slow Metabolism? Let Science Speed It Up For You

The Kosher Gourmet by Diane Rossen Worthington Whitefish Terrine: A French take on gefilte fish

April 9, 2014

Jonathan Tobin: Why Did Kerry Lie About Israeli Blame?

Samuel G. Freedman: A resolution 70 years later for a father's unsettling legacy of ashes from Dachau

Jessica Ivins: A resolution 70 years later for a father's unsettling legacy of ashes from Dachau

Kim Giles: Asking for help is not weakness

Kathy Kristof and Barbara Hoch Marcus: 7 Great Growth Israeli Stocks

Matthew Mientka: How Beans, Peas, And Chickpeas Cleanse Bad Cholesterol and Lowers Risk of Heart Disease

Sabrina Bachai: 5 At-Home Treatments For Headaches

The Kosher Gourmet by Daniel Neman Have yourself a matzo ball: The secrets bubby never told you and recipes she could have never imagined

April 8, 2014

Lori Nawyn: At Your Wit's End and Back: Finding Peace

Susan B. Garland and Rachel L. Sheedy: Strategies Married Couples Can Use to Boost Benefits

David Muhlbaum: Smart Tax Deductions Non-Itemizers Can Claim

Jill Weisenberger, M.S., R.D.N., C.D.E : Before You Lose Your Mental Edge

Dana Dovey: Coffee Drinkers Rejoice! Your Cup Of Joe Can Prevent Death From Liver Disease

Chris Weller: Electric 'Thinking Cap' Puts Your Brain Power Into High Gear

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April 4, 2014

Rabbi David Gutterman: The Word for Nothing Means Everything

Charles Krauthammer: Kerry's folly, Chapter 3

Amy Peterson: A life of love: How to build lasting relationships with your children

John Ericson: Older Women: Save Your Heart, Prevent Stroke Don't Drink Diet

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Cameron Huddleston: Best and Worst Buys of April 2014

Stacy Rapacon: Great Mutual Funds for Young Investors

Sarah Boesveld: Teacher keeps promise to mail thousands of former students letters written by their past selves

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April 2, 2014

Paul Greenberg: Death and joy in the spring

Dan Barry: Should South Carolina Jews be forced to maintain this chimney built by Germans serving the Nazis?

Mayra Bitsko: Save me! An alien took over my child's personality

Frank Clayton: Get happy: 20 scientifically proven happiness activities

Susan Scutti: It's Genetic! Obesity and the 'Carb Breakdown' Gene

Lecia Bushak: Why Hand Sanitizer May Actually Harm Your Health

Stacy Rapacon: Great Funds You Can Own for $500 or Less

Cameron Huddleston: 7 Ways to Save on Home Decor

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Jewish World Review Jan 4, 2012/ 9 Teves, 5772

It is to weep

By Roger Simon

http://www.JewishWorldReview.com | DES MOINES, Iowa — It has been a trail of tears. Newt Gingrich, Rick Santorum and Rick Perry all cried on television in the days before the Iowa caucuses.

What they did was warm, human and utterly genuine. A few years ago, we would have called them sissies.

But America has grown far too sensitive for that. Today, we look upon male lacrimation as a combination of manly sensitivity and manly courage.

Santorum seems to have done the best with his tears. He ended in a virtual for first place with Mitt Romney.

Gingrich and Perry didn’t do as well. Gingrich, as is his wont, tried a range of emotions in Iowa, including rage. He called Romney a “liar,” a word almost never uttered in political discourse — unless President Barack Obama is addressing Congress, that is. (Bob Dole bitterly called for George H.W. Bush to “stop lying about my record” in 1988, but Bush didn’t and became president.)

Lying in politics happens every day, of course. Public crying is a newer phenomenon. There used to be no crying in politics. And if there was, it could be ruinous.

In 1972, Ed Muskie appeared to shed a tear or two while defending the honor of his wife outside the offices of the Manchester Union Leader just before the New Hampshire primary.

Muskie said later it was merely melted snow, but some reporters saw it differently and the damage was done. Muskie was finished as a presidential candidate.

And it took 36 years for crying to reemerge.

When Hillary Clinton teared up in public just before the New Hampshire primary in January 2008, her campaign staff grew terrified — a female candidate had to be strong! — and she was forced to do damage control.

“I actually have emotions,” she said on CNN.

“If you get too emotional, that undercuts you,” she said on “Access Hollywood.” “A man can cry; we know that. Lots of our leaders have cried. But [for] a woman, it’s a different kind of dynamic.”

But after Clinton won New Hampshire, everybody decided her crying was a good thing. Barack Obama’s campaign decided it was the reason she won, in fact.

“Did her choking up have a positive effect among women? Did they say, ‘We are not going to run her out of the race here’?” an Obama adviser told me. “There is no other reason we can see. Every poll showed us even with Clinton with women, and then we lose women to her. There was a big gender gap that didn’t show up until yesterday.”

Clinton agreed. “Yesterday,” she said in her victory speech in New Hampshire, “I found my own voice.”

Unfortunately, her voice remained firm and steady for the rest of the race, and she lost her fight for the Democratic nomination.

Ironically, her husband had been one of the few sitting presidents to cry in public.

On June 14, 1993, Bill Clinton announced his nomination of Ruth Bader Ginsburg to the Supreme Court in a Rose Garden ceremony. Ginsburg remained dry-eyed as she made her acceptance speech, but Clinton wiped a tear from his cheek as Ginsburg thanked her late mother.

Losing candidates often joke about crying.

When the Gerald Ford-Bob Dole ticket lost in 1976, Dole said: “Contrary to reports that I took the loss badly, I want to say that I went home last night and slept like a baby — every two hours, I woke up and cried.”

And Adlai Stevenson, who lost the presidency twice to Dwight Eisenhower, repeated a story told by Abraham Lincoln about the man who lost an election and was asked by his friends how he felt the next day. He said he felt “like a little boy who stubbed his toe in the dark. He said that he was too old to cry, but it hurt too much to laugh.”

But that was the 19th century. Today, nobody is too old or too male or too anything to cry.

Political life is but a vale of tears.

Oh yeah, one more thing: The presidential candidates and their super PACs spent more than $12.6 million just on TV ads in Iowa.

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